2010-08-11 Let go, only we can rescue ourself 放下

[17:02] eugenice: i have just made the blog public view, no more private to ownself
[17:02] eugenice: since no more secret ....kt already knows & accept
[17:03] eugenice: only jc , dont think she will come to this blog
[17:04] eugenice: i can now share with my dear friends easily with the blog, no need long story & tears
[17:04] msn/mtlai: ok
[17:10] msn/mtlai: if u make blog public, then ppl will be scare to send kids there
[17:10] msn/mtlai: affect their bz
[17:11] eugenice:
[17:11] eugenice: less ppl will come to this blog la, i don publicize it

[17:18] Wong Stella Yahoo: i read with tears, in library!! i can u/std ur pain, luckily hv MT beside u. unlike my last 2 aborption, JS throw me into dark!

[17:31] eugenice: aft writing out all my feelings & all the incidents & evidences, my heart is peace now
[17:31] eugenice: let go
[17:31] eugenice: 放下
[17:31] eugenice: i hope u too
[17:32] eugenice: i pray to Fang to take care of your marriage every night
[17:32] eugenice: u hv to take care of your health, i m worried for u
[17:33] eugenice: dont think so much, let go, take everything easy
[17:33] eugenice: no matter what ppl says, let them fly away with the wind
[17:33] eugenice: make life easy
[17:33] eugenice: then only we can rescue ourself

2010-08-10 农历七月初一/ 佛学院幼稚园的奇异事件

自从圣方通过圣枚姐姐表达要读佛学院幼稚园的意愿、妈咪征询师父意见，并顺利为圣方报读之后，一连串奇异事件发生在圣方被编排就读的1B 幼一蓝班。真是无不让人嘖嘖称奇！

根据吴园长说，该1B 班上的铅笔、颜色笔及文具都会无故“走位”，连学生校服都会无故调位，让校方捉摸不透，头痛不已。

而连在该幼儿园任教超过20年的班主任，也在教了5个月之后，意志坚决地立刻呈辞。
园长说，她个人在这所幼稚园工作了超过30年，从教师到园长，都不曾听闻校园内有任何奇异事件。

当正副园长心中觉得事有跷蹊向妈咪表达时，妈咪也觉得有点不可思议，并答应今晚农历七月初一祭拜圣方时，了解一下是不是和圣方有关系。

这么巧合，从佛学院回到公司，在附近的素食馆用午餐时，竟然遇上了帮我们解决难题的许师父。我马上趋前求问，师父一听，笑笑说：这是一般男孩子的顽皮啊！很正常！师父也教导妈咪去开解圣方，要他好好读书，不要调皮搗蛋。

晚上，妈咪好好和圣方好好谈，希望他求学之后，好好学习，向善道，不要结交坏朋友。

灵异堂：医学院天天闹鬼 神秘婆婆每夜出现

http://www.kwongwah.com.my/news/2010/08/11/114.html

报道：胡连花

医学院给人的第一印象是，学生们生活非常忙碌，个个埋头苦读，无暇与人话长短，更别说招惹事非，但偏偏就有一间医学院因为惹“阴”，导致师生们日夜要为“防阴”而忙得不可开交，有苦说不出。

一间医学院学生透露，他就读的医学院就因建在阴地而发生招阴事件。在医学院未获得大改造之下，天天都有学生撞鬼事件传出。

他说，有者不知是遭鬼上身还是什么的，时常大喊大叫。学生被鬼迷魂后在校园游荡及遭戏弄更是常见之事，学生闹跳楼事件也都常发生，庆幸都获救。

他说，医学院在鬼影幢幢笼罩之下，不曾闹出人命可说是不幸中大幸了。

每天都要救人

他透露，这间医学院在学生入驻后才开始发生连续闹鬼事件。这些灵异事故都发生在两栋的女生宿舍里，而且是越闹越炽热，每天都要劳动师生“备战”以方便执行救人行动，搞到大家疲惫不堪。

其中一栋女生宿舍问题最严重，甚至闹到女生都纷纷要求退房，有些甚至还要求停学，校方知道事态已严重，就积极展开抢救行动。

他说，院方请来名风水师指点迷津，发现原来女生宿舍是建在极阴之地，才招惹灵异事故的，尤其是其中一栋楼最阴，必须暂时关闭，不可住人。而另一栋还可以利用男生阳气的压制来解决。

夜晚鬼叫门

他说，女生宿舍由男生入住后，仅发生过一宗鬼叫门事件。事发生时是晚上10时左右，该男实习医生正与室友在房内温习。

“据其室友指出，事发时，发现他不断开关房门。室友在忍不住之下问他，为什么你不断开关门？才揭发他撞鬼事。”

他说，那名男实习医生说，他是不断听到女人、男人的叫门声音，而去开门，却一直都没发现叫门人。

“当时，他本身不觉有他，因为是不同的男人及女人声音。较后，室友问起，才知道叫门声只有他一个人听到。这么多次的叫门声其室友一次都没听到。才明白原来是鬼叫门戏弄他。”

听从风水师指示

有读过周易的阴阳学说，就明白阴阳之论。他就有指出，天有阴阳、人有阴阳、地有阴阳，万物都由阴阳构成，天地形成了万物；万物又形成了男女雌雄。他也把所有的阴阳因素加在一起达到了一个方程式，在解析下而形成了一套非常受世代人类接受的理论体系。

校方就依从风水师的方式，把其中一栋的男女宿舍来个大调换，然后，另建一座新的女生宿舍，才平息医学生撞鬼风波。过后，有学生还是时常在院内见到，及一些男学生还听到鬼敲门声。而女生所住的宿舍则相安无事。被关闭的那栋极阴地宿舍已成了禁区，不允许任何人踏入。

凌晨游荡的婆婆

这名学生说，宿舍闹鬼虽然用男女调换方式达致阴阳协调，但学生还是有在校园看到游荡的鬼魅，尤其是一个老婆婆每天凌晨3时后就开始现身报到之事至今就不曾间断过。不过，鬼戏弄学生之事已好久没发生了。

2010-08-09 Tian always sick & JC seeking help

照片取自小叔的面子書
由於小田看醫生頻頻, 這位新爸爸竟也在面子書上特開了一相冊上載孩子看醫生的照片.




[13:10] Jessie: hi sao sao
[13:12] Jessie: siao tian diarrhea for a week liao
[13:13] Jessie: say is because growth teeth wor....is it true?
[13:14] Eugenice: oh
[13:14] Eugenice: doc said?
[13:15] Jessie: nup doc said nothing, cos he is still active
[13:15] Eugenice: many reasons can cause diarrhea
[13:15] Jessie: those are old ppl said
[13:15] Eugenice: if caused by teeth growing, what abt his previous teeth? also fell sick when growing?
[13:16] Jessie: i think some teeth yes but not all
[13:16] Jessie: didnt really record every single thing
[13:16] Jessie: cannot remember liao
[13:17] Eugenice: if he had the same before, then maybe this time also yes
[13:17] Jessie: so challenging !!!!
[13:17] Jessie: how r u?
[13:17] Jessie: this end month long holidays, we may come back
[13:18] Eugenice: if he never sick when teeth growing, then maybe another reasons, eg: food, hygiene,drinks, etc
[13:18] Eugenice: i m here busy lo, u leh?
[13:18] Eugenice: so long no updates
[13:19] Jessie: he never complaint stomach ache
[13:19] Eugenice: eat? as usual? any changing in eating?
[13:20] Jessie: yup he eat as usual..play actively
[13:20] Jessie: no wor....just normal
[13:20] Jessie: except he started school lor...
[13:20] Jessie: and ever since then, always sick
[13:21] Eugenice: he eat at school?
[13:22] Jessie: yes
[13:22] Eugenice: morning session? half day?
[13:22] Eugenice: did u check what he was feed at school?
[13:31] Jessie: rice and vege
[13:31] Jessie: my mom also there in the school
[13:32] Jessie: not because of school food cos tian start diarrhea sunday nite
[13:33] Eugenice: diarrhea non-stop? how many time per day? watery? or soft stool? or only water?
[13:33] Jessie: soft stool, 5-6 times per day
[13:33] Eugenice: that means he eats a lot? or he has been eating too much?
[13:34] Jessie: normal
[13:34] Jessie: not alot....he usually eat less
[13:34] Jessie: so consider normal
[13:34] Eugenice: yes, i know he usually eat quite less, but if he pass out soft stool 5-6/day, means he is full inside worr
[13:35] Jessie: dun understand
[13:35] Eugenice: if diarrhea, aft 3-4 times, will only watery, bcos no more solid food in the stomach
[13:36] Jessie: he eat solid food ma
[13:36] Eugenice: so his total input of food=output of stool?
[13:37] Eugenice: can he control? or just pass on his pant?
[13:37] Jessie: i think so...
[13:37] Jessie: yday can control
[13:38] Eugenice: if cant control for many days, need to check on the colon 大肠
[13:39] Eugenice: what did your mom say? she is more qualified....i am just based on my knowledge
[13:46] Jessie: she not so ken cheong type geh
[13:46] Jessie: haha
[13:48] Eugenice: certain things must kan cheong, certain can ignore or delay
[13:51] Jessie: yday also visited doc....he said nothing
[13:51] Eugenice: running nose & cough is still ok, but don play play with fever & diarrhea
[13:51] Jessie: went twice liao
[13:51] Jessie: wed and yday nite
[13:52] Eugenice: did doc listen on tian's stomach movement?
[13:52] Jessie: yes
[13:52] Eugenice: so stomach normal right, what abt the colon?
[13:52] Jessie: colon duno
[13:54] Eugenice: then maybe u change to another doc & see

[14:04] Jessie: i call u...can?
[14:10] Jessie: what is colon check?
[14:13] Eugenice: [14:12] Chinseng Yeoh: did dr give antibiotics?
[14:13] Chinseng Yeoh: kids cannot check colon
[14:13] Eugenice: reply from a doc
[14:14] Eugenice: adults can only check colon, use scope
[14:14] Eugenice: for kids, only agak agak, suspect
[14:14] Jessie: not sure need to send him to do scope onot
[14:14] Eugenice: so normally doc only give a/biotic for kids
[14:15] Eugenice: oh no, kids cannot do scope
[14:15] Jessie: so shd i wait one more day?
[14:15] Eugenice: their lubang too small la
[14:15] Jessie: no wor....UH dun like to give a/biotic
[14:15] Eugenice: change doc
[14:16] Jessie: UH is two different doc...wed and last nite
[14:16] Jessie: not same
[14:17] Jessie: unless tonite i go to his usual kids doc
[14:17] Eugenice:
[14:16] Chinseng Yeoh: was the stool like "kaya" or dilute moi?
[14:17] Jessie: kaya
[14:17] Jessie: like kacang hijau bubur...with biji-biji
[14:17] Jessie: start with yellow now brown
[14:18] Eugenice: what r that biji-biji? the things he eaten?
[14:18] Jessie: nup is not the thing he ate...just the stool are like that...old ppl said that's the sign of growing teeth....akakakakkaka
[14:19] Jessie: but not the hard biji...just the stool look like biji biji

[14:29] Eugenice: waiting for doc reply, he has pt now
[14:29] Jessie: tq so much
[14:30] Eugenice: i will suggest not to delay, u can try go to other clinic/ kids hosp
[14:30] Jessie: clinic never help for tian
[14:30] Jessie: haha
[14:30] Jessie: all the time, he only can recover after seeing his so call 'doc' akakakkaka
[14:30] Eugenice: even diff doc, but as long as they are under same UH, the receive the same directive
[14:30] Jessie: today my mom said, so far so good
[14:31] Eugenice: so not going to school this wk/ last wk?
[14:31] Jessie: today not going
[14:31] Jessie: last week went 3 days
[14:32] Jessie: fri not sending him cos just swimming and play....i dun like the swimming thing
[14:32] Eugenice: swimming? the child care provides swimming?
[14:32] Eugenice: why u dont like? i thought u all like to swim
[14:33] Jessie: i dun like the pool they provide and too many kids in the small pool]
[14:33] Jessie: also day before water....very cool
[14:38] Eugenice: any family members also having diarrhoea?
[14:39] Jessie: KT diarrhea last sat but he was away in JB
[14:39] Jessie: he return sun nite after tian sudah tidur
[14:42] Eugenice: u mean kt got diarrhea while he was at jb? or started at KL then he travelled to jb? possible he got it at KL too?
[14:43] Jessie: while in JB
[14:43] Jessie: nup, got it in JB sat dinner
[14:44] Eugenice: then should not from the same bacteria/ virus
[14:47] Jessie: dun think so....
[14:48] Eugenice: [14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Try modiy his diet
[14:38] Chinseng Yeoh: give high fibre like veggies
[14:48] Jessie: egg ok?
[14:49] Jessie: mix egg and vege? cos tian dun really know how to eat vege yet :$

[14:50] Eugenice: [14:48] eugenice: need to go further for other checking?
[14:49] Chinseng Yeoh: if in doubt, better recheck
[14:50] Jessie: noted
[14:50] Jessie: tq tq
[14:51] Eugenice: recheck means to check with other doc from other hosp/ clinic, not the same hosp which running the same policy
[14:51] Jessie: k tx
[14:52] Eugenice: egg should be ok, it is protein
[14:52] Jessie: will inform my mom to cook egg + vege for him and try
[14:52] Jessie: he love egg now adays...just learn to eat nia
[14:53] Jessie: so can chop very tiny vege, add together
[14:53] Eugenice: what was his earlier sakit? bef diarrhea?
[14:53] Jessie: 1/7 start school....2/7 start flu
[14:53] Jessie: then high fever
[14:53] Jessie: two weeks no school
[14:54] Jessie: fever, flu + cough
[14:54] Jessie: after recover, start school back but after 3 days, flu again but minor
[14:54] Jessie: then sunday nite he dun want to go school, then he cry and vomit
[14:54] Jessie: monday nite say ok no need go school....stop crying and no issue
[14:55] Eugenice: aiyo
[14:55] Jessie: tue nite didnt mention school, he sleep normal hour, then midnite 2am, he cry and try to vomit but couldnt....very obvious is he try to vomit and pretent sick
[14:55] Jessie: then i learn, sometime kids can pretent sick wor
[14:56] Jessie: after stop aweek, start school back for one week but only like 3 days haha
[14:57] Jessie: last week was 2-5aug
[14:59] Eugenice: he doesnt like to go to school?
[14:59] Eugenice: why?
[14:59] Jessie: cos he scared my mom leave him
[15:00] Eugenice: wah...he is a boy wor, must brave
[15:00] Jessie: haha he cry like gal geh
[15:00] Eugenice: mei never cry since 1st day to childcare at age 3
[15:01] Jessie: brave gal



[14:11] eugenice: want to consult u
[14:11] eugenice: if a 2 y/o kid diarrhea for 1 wk, 5-6 time a day, visited doc twice, stomach ok
[14:12] eugenice: what r the possibilities? how to check colon for young kid?
[14:12] Chinseng Yeoh: did dr give antibiotics?
[14:13] Chinseng Yeoh: kids cannot check colon
[14:15] eugenice: no a/b given
[14:15] Chinseng Yeoh: was the sai watery?
[14:16] eugenice: soft stool
[14:16] Chinseng Yeoh: was the stool like kaya or dilute moi?
[14:17] eugenice: kaya
[14:17] Chinseng Yeoh: change the milk
[14:18] eugenice: now less taking milk, mostly solid food
[14:19] eugenice: the stool like kacang hijau bubur...with biji-biji, last wk started with yellow, now brown

[14:34] Chinseng Yeoh: your kid?
[14:34] eugenice: 2 y/o
[14:35] eugenice: u remember my history? the nephew which believed 投胎 from my son
[14:36] eugenice: the mom will ask me for whatever the kid is facing. The little boy will just listen to me. Funny right?
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: OIC
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: any family members also having diarrhoea?
[14:36] eugenice: no
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: He is your god son?
[14:36] eugenice: no, i dont want such relationship
[14:37] eugenice: the boy has special bonding with me
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Good lah got bonding
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Most likely the problems lie in his food
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Try modiy his diet
[14:38] Chinseng Yeoh: give high fibre like veggies
[14:48] eugenice: need to go further for other checking?
[14:49] Chinseng Yeoh: if in doubt, better recheck

J: Tian sick again & again

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Status: Tian sick again

This is the status that always shown on J msn status.
Tian always fall sick like fever, vomit, cough, running nose non stop. It seemed like routine to see doctor and become a habit to take medicines.
Since pregnancy, Tian always give troubles & headaches & worries to the family.

莫非當年高人所言，指他是因不甘心前世被黎家上一代的孽而离去，投胎再来討債，果是真的?
佛学院言： 圣德是因為不捨得連累我而自行提早離開, 這確確實實是我的福報啊!



Besides always sick at KL, she noticed that whenever there is a trip back to Penang, Tian sure will get more sick. Either during departure, or on the way or during the stays at Penang.

小婶J asked me whether this is because of both Tian & herself have not "officially" pray Fang.
Well, of course I dont and I wont force anyone to pray to my son.
I also cant say whether Tian's sicks are related to Fang.  
But one thing for sure, Tian is the dear youngest brother of Fang. Fang will not hurt people, Fang loves we all at home & cares for us.