亲娘促“前世亲娘”继续看顾圣田

随着家婆在2012年10月，癌发短短21天就往生之后，尘归尘、土归土，所有的事情都沉淀了下来，家族里一切的恩怨情仇总算告一段落。。。

以慈悲來消解仇恨，惡性因果循環停止了;　
以宗教情懷來寬容，人生才能真正地圓滿。

圣方获得超渡已往极乐净土了，圣德投胎成圣田也长大上学了。
我们的日子也平静地度过，行善、持素、念经、放生，祈福予身边的每一人.....



事隔三年，2015年11月，小婶Ｊ患上乳癌，而且是最毒的一种，马上进行切除手术及电疗。劫后余生，夫妇俩开始逐步持素，也慢慢接触佛法，性情有了改变。


2016年6月的某一天，就在我参与台湾功德山上宽下台大法师亲自来槟城主持的八关斋戒回来之后的第二天，小婶Ｊ忽然私讯我，询问他们一家三口的命论。

最教我惊讶的是，她主动提到圣田投胎自我的亡儿圣德的事，原来这个我以为会是一辈子的秘密，她早知道而且竟然主动向我提起了。

妯娌俩都是隔代儿子的亲娘，一时之间很投缘，也彼此安慰。

她表示高兴圣田有多一个人疼爱，况且她本身患癌属於高危族，何时离开也不知道，至少还有我这位“前世亲娘”继续看顾圣田。

这是我从来没想过的局面。
从２００７年延仁师父、医生、２０１５年卢台长处先后证实圣德投胎成圣田之后，这些年来，圣田一天天长大，与我们“前世父母”及“前世姐姐”枚姐姐都很投缘，我们也一直都以平常心看待，我不想引起小婶的误会，想不到是她主动提起了投胎及往后看顾圣田的课题。


[11:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Saosao, Can share what Lu Tai Jang said bout pa?
[11:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: He didn't share that i have cancer too?
[11:02, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: he said this family 业力很重. more particular one i need to check back my book
[11:06, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: u remember i told u all my whole body was shivering for nearly one hour, after listening to him, all the way from his private suite room at Equatorial Hotel back to town
[11:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Saosao, u mean i ask for me too? Or just Lai family?
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U ask for me too?
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I remember u told me but didn't share in details after that
[11:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U just said u scared that's all
[11:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Lai family generally....u & i both are to pay back the debt 嫁来这个家还债的
[11:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yeah...i didnt disclose much because i worried maybe some of u may feel unhappy or uneasy
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's i understand cos m so call with 心灵法门
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Lin is escaped and changed to good fortune after she married to the 有福报的家
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Glad u keep the record...hope u share all with me and khoen...
[11:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We shd b able to handle
[11:10, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: are u sure u want to know??????
[11:10, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i believe him so much...so accurate....that;s why i keep shivering
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anyway, even though is to pay back....m still 知足 what we have now.... will nian jing and little house to pray for better when we leave
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Questions ....
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Hope u dun mind i direct ya
[11:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can i ask?
[11:12, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: ??
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I want to ask...cos u did mentioned couple of time u believed Lu Tai Jang....but how come u didn't follow his teaching?
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: The daily homework, little house and fang seng?
[11:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: The 3 things
[11:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yes, i truly believe him on his super power but not following his method because he is 乘离正道，不是正信佛法. We do chanting nian jing & fang seng regularly
[11:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: chanting and fang seng is the 佛教正道 but not the little house
[11:16, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Oh...tx for sharing
[11:17, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: what we following is the 正道
[11:17, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: actually 很多修行人都有这些超力量，我也认识
[11:26, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: to be frank, KT's schoolmates are talking behind abt KT believing......including 泽荣
[11:26, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the fatty guy we met at Hui Yin Seh last trip told me
[11:27, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i replied him i respect other people's choice....there is no bad or wrong....
[11:29, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Ya...nvm la....so long we nian da bei jo and xin jing....
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's the usual jing....not the " chair kao" in Cantonese
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 😂😂😂😂
[11:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can read ah
[11:31, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 🤔 dont know
[11:33, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: oh ok got it 邪教
[11:34, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Hehehhe
[11:34, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Khoen seems good after tge nian jing so...shd b ok
[11:35, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: But still nian jing
[11:36, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 佛教 do encourage people to nian jing and take vege
[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So now at least khoen did both
[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Just not 100% 佛教


[11:38, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U have me khoen and Tian sharing from lu tai jang?
[11:40, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: thats good enough on his drastic change. I remember both KT & pa ma always gave strong objections to me when i tried to persuade them to less eat meat
[11:41, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I will ask Khoen want to hear from u what u heard from lu tai jang about me, him and tian onot...
[11:42, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U will share with us? Lu tai jang said shd share with us?
[11:43, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: why u suddenly ask?? u really want to know? u wont angry or other emotions? sometimes its hard to accept....
[11:44, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We listen together with khoen la...our next visit
[11:45, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: actually KT knew some years ago....that time my sifu also can "see"...i didnt prepare to tell but ma was so big mouth to tell KT....and last year, i was so scared listening to what Lu told me....double confirm


[11:45, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is it about tian is yr son?
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: u know already??????
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yes i know about tau tai thing
[11:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i told myself i wont tell
[11:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I believed the tau tai...will b all family moving around
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: do u know ma asked u to do something on me....to bring the 胎灵 to u
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can b gong gong, or whoever Lai family that move around
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the most accurate is within 49 days
[11:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Ma do something on u to bring tian to me?
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then shd b tian also owe me haha and now to me to pay back...or to me to ask something from me
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Haha
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All still yian fen kua
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yuan fen
[11:49, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My pinyin is bad ya...
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Not the correct pin yin
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Haha
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Just like what lu tai jang said...all things happen with reason
[11:50, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Either pay back to ask for things
[11:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If come to me to ask for things... if i know better off....can nian more jing
[11:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If no yuan, whatever ma do...won't work
[11:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Or since it works...accept it lor...
[11:52, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: phew...i m relief at least u understand. Over the years, u have asked me several times on this sensitive issue...i dare not tell. Koko also said no need to tell. We dont want u to misunderstand us


[11:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Again...back to tian given to me is to pay back or ask for things...
[11:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: but do u know how ma replied me when i checked back with her on my sifu findings.....she said, nvm la, either your son or KT' son , also my soon soon !
[11:53, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Watched the ghost story...story also about family member waiting for next family to pregnant
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: In a way, ma is correct
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So long ma didnt 害 yr son, force to give to me
[11:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: she said pity KT no kid...is NOTHING to take mine to yours
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: 害 or no 害，都已过去，都已放下
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: According to lu tai jang...mayb thats yr son Yuan with u for few months...
[11:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Duno u accept that onot
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: already found out the reason and prayed. Settled their debt
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yup...about debt
[11:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: sifu not interpreted this way ...
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: If it is about debts, ma didn't 害你。
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: It's her debts too
[11:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: And u and me is to pay back as what u said.
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Also her debts to Lai family as second wife
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All individual ada debts
[11:58, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: yes, i know i m coming to this famiyl to pay back...that's why i 放下
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: All bcos u did something in yr previous life to Lai family
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: the no son curse already over with the pay back of Sheng De life
[11:59, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's y current life u need to pay back...same goes to me
[12:00, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Same goes to sheng De...what he have done past life....
[12:00, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: What sheng tian past life he have done...
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: This current life come to me but not other more richer family
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Etc etc
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 应果

[12:01, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: all these family issues has been so long long ago never cross my mind
[12:01, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: M studying that too
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My past life determine my current
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My current will determine my next life
[12:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Same goes to u...accept u have done something on yr past life, thats y u need to pay back
[12:03, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Lai family didn't owe us....we owe them actually
[12:03, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: We do better for our next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Thank god we r human...we can do something to pay back and do something for our next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Animal will not have chance to nian jing to have better next life
[12:04, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Some animal do have to pay back too....
[12:05, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: animal do have 轮回 as well
[12:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Yup....but animal how to nian jing? So need to wait next life i guess...
[12:06, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's little i read
[12:07, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anyway, since oredy 放下..nothing about u owe Lai family or Lai family owe u...or me....Important we understand 应果
[12:07, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: that's why i dont feel anymore regret to ma. I did my best to her to make her good. I took care of her full heartedly on her final days with the dirty things and her urine on me.....
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: i nvr say Lai family owe us... it is we the sim pu who owe the family
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 👍🏻
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: what we going through is to pay back our debt to this family too
[12:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So what is next haha...
[12:09, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: so what about your own family? can help?


[12:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anything that lu tai jang mentioned about pa?
Or shd just accept as it is....the running toilet?
[12:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Shd do RT onot?
[12:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Shd bring pa to Melaka chinese medication onot?
[12:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Brb
[12:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: aiyo....Lu didnt go such detail one la. He only said all pa suffering now is because his 业力太重, he cant escape, must go thought by his own
[12:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: go through*
[12:30, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That case will go with pa wish...


[17:42, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I m curious. Who told u abt Tian tou tai from De? U know long ago?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So is sheng de...the second one?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: What about sheng fang btw?
[17:43, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Disturb sheng mei is sheng fang or de?
[17:44, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Did yr si fu share where sheng de came from?
[17:44, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. Feb 2007. U conceived within the 49 days
[17:45, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Fang who disturb because he was the eldest but everyone forgot him. Fang missed the chance to tou tai within 49 days
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then tou tai to where liao?
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Who told u long ago ?
[17:46, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Can't remember when
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I though this is a forever secret
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tou tai nothing what...no?
[17:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: So sheng fang tau tai onot then? What lu tai jang said?
[17:48, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: That time I double check with dr. And the answer given to me was so scarily accurate
[17:48, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tou tai not normal?
[17:50, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Of course tou tai is very normal for every life. But normally ppl don't know where and who
[17:51, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U didn't ask lu tai jang sheng de tau tai from where/who?
[17:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: No


[17:56, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U ask y sheng de no yuan with u? Or is it that the few months is to bau ern to u?
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes this one I know the answer
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I heard from lu tai jang b4, few months is also yuan fen and bao ern.
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Sheng de is yr previous husband or wife or what?
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Huh
[17:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is past life...normally lu tai jang will share rite?
[17:58, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I didn't ask he didn't tell
[17:58, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Past life, i could b sheng tian lover or m khoen husband, etc...all related


[18:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Is it bordering u that sheng de tau tai to sheng tian?
[18:02, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Anything u wish me to do?
[18:06, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I m gan en that u gave birth to him after much sufferings. I m happy still can know and see my son in his new life.
[18:08, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Sifu said this child will be bonding to me besides parents. He will grow 叛逆 but will listen to me
[18:08, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Sorry of all the things u gone thru....m willing to mi bu 弥补 if i can...

[18:09, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: From sifu or lu tai jang?
[18:10, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: 👍🏻🙏🏻at least u around to help.
[18:11, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: More ppl love tian , he will b very sing fo
[18:11, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Nothing for u to say sorry.
[18:13, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Good too since m high risk cancer..may leave earlier.... u can help continue take care of him 😍😍😍
[18:14, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Both. That's why I shivered all the way
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Then shd tell me...so i know how long more i can live
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Since u are telling this, yeah, sifu did say 这个孩子以后还是会回到你的身边的，but of course I don't want to see anything happ to u
[18:15, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: But is it from lu tai jang?
[18:16, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: And I didn't know u have ca at that time
[18:16, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Did lu tai jang said how long i will live?
[18:18, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Nope. He totally didn't say abt this
[18:18, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: He didn't tell our life till when


[18:20, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Lu tai jang didn't mentioned about sheng de and sheng tian?
[18:21, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. As above told u
[18:28, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I have told u everything now. No more secret on De & Tian. Pls don't keep any in heart. Over the years, i 以平常心看待，most important is everyone 平安无事
[18:30, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I know how suffer u went through to get him, and how much love u grow him. He will be your good boy !
[18:39, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: I want to know more what lu tai jang said bout us....u record down?
[18:39, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: My suffer r nothing compare to yr lost...


[18:47, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Btw, have u settled sheng fang?
[18:51, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Fang is in better place.now 极乐世界
[18:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: That's fantastic 👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
[18:52, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: No more that u said follow u every where u go?
[18:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: That was many years ago. Not I said. Ppl saw him following me
[18:53, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: He even attended the kindergarten Mei went. The headmistress told me
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Cos u also told me he follow u around...anyway, heaven is the best place ever
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: ya u told me that...
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Tau tai is suffering...go to heaven is best
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Yes. fang is forever peace there
[18:54, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Correct
[18:55, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: U still have record lu tai jang about khoen me and tian?
[18:55, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: Today u seemed realize a lot on Buddhism. Must have been read a lot recently 👍🏻
[18:56, 6/7/2016] Wong Ewe Chin: I need to check back where i put.
But didn't say much on u individual. Only touch a bit regarding Tian
[18:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Not today la....i follow khoen and play alot lu tai jang video
[18:57, 6/7/2016] Lai Tan Jessie Lee Sim: Also some books khoen read to me.

卢军宏台长说圣德 "投人" 回家来了！

随着家婆在2012年10月，癌发短短21天就往生之后，尘归尘、土归土，所有的事情都沉淀了下来，家族里一切的恩怨情仇总算告一段落。。。

以慈悲來消解仇恨，惡性因果循環停止了;　
以宗教情懷來寬容，人生才能真正地圓滿。

圣方获得超渡已往极乐净土了，圣德投胎成圣田也长大上学了。
我们的日子也平静地度过，行善、持素、念经、放生，祈福予身边的每一人.....



著名的心灵法门创始人卢军宏台长  因其通灵感应而风糜全球，趁着他来槟的难得殊胜机缘，我有幸在数万人之中，获他一见，并赐予宝贵赠言。

提到我的两个亡儿时，通神灵的卢台长也说了同样的话。圣方在极乐世界，圣德已投人回家来了。

当卢台长说“投人”，我还捉不到他的口语，经他说了两遍，以及身旁的助理进一步解释是投胎之意，我才完全确定了下来。

从卢台长处出来，我全身发抖一小时，太神灵了。

这几年来，我已完完全全放下，也不再想起有关儿子的事。如今经他确证当年许生延仁师父的话，不寒而栗，久久不能自己。

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搞得心里忐忑不安
還要求媽咪陪到她入睡了才離開

回想媽咪本身兒時也曾一段時期因為看了鬼戲而怕黑及怕獨自一人
曾經為了臨睡前要上廁所而一路開燈到整間屋子亮通
也曾經為了不敢獨自一人到廚房開水而宁可口渴一整晚
就是因為當年沒有正信的宗教教育

媽咪赶緊乘此來個机會教育
以多年來的佛道修行領悟及社會見聞加上切身經驗
再向法根深厚的槟城慧音社社长拿督庄耿康居士求取意见后
向小少女科學式解釋有關"人鬼及靈体"
破除迷思


首先
媽咪先扫除了"鬼" 這個帶有不平等及阴森字眼的名詞
而稱之為"靈体"
"鬼" 是一般沒有宗教教育及被各种妖言誤導的無知形容

"怎样才算是人?"
"怎样才算是靈?"
媽咪告訴小少女說
我們生活的空間其實是人靈共存的
大家和平共處互敬互重
那我們家里也有嗎？　學校也有嗎？
是的，到处都有


人是由肉体和灵识两个部份所组成
有灵才有生命
我們人是由肉身及由靈魂支配的性格和七情六欲
就像电器插电之后会有操作
而在我们的生命中
我们所做的每一件事都会记录在一个记忆体内（像电脑一样）
当人死後
靈魂就離開肉体（就像是没电了）
根据生前的行为善恶才决定灵魂的去处
当然也有一些意外或突发事件而无法如愿


媽咪講解了人死後靈体的幾类:
a: 升极樂世界成佛（与基督教的上天堂殊途同归）
b: 投胎轉世（地狱在人间）
c: 被安奉的靈
d: 無家可歸隨處漂泊的靈

由於家族里這些年都有發生了不少事件
小少女馬上領悟
例舉了
阿祖（媽咪的阿嬤）
圣德弟弟---圣田弟弟
圣方弟弟

媽咪也藉此講解了為什麼同一家庭所教養出來的孩子會有完全不同的性格
甚至双胞胎三胞胎也性格迴異
就是因為投胎而來的靈体來自不同的源頭啊
虽然生理上 DNA　驗出來是相似的一家人
性格及際遇卻各有造化

”為什麼有的靈很凶呢？”
因為有的不是自然死
他们可能是被害死或死於意外
所以死不瞑目或是帶有怨氣
就放不下想要報仇

"哦! 我的朋友告訴我，石頭里面也有鬼的 "
媽咪說:
因為有一些靈体赶不及或錯過了投胎的机會
只能繼續成為靈体
又沒有被生前的家人所侍奉
就成了無家可歸隨處漂泊的靈
他們沒有住處及獲得供奉
只好隨處找地方淒息
附在樹本和石頭

所以啊
長輩們常說
出門在外
不要隨意砍樹丟石或是拾石回家
就是這個原因


听了這人靈的道理
加上身邊的多個實例
完全解答了心中的疑团及扫除了恐惧
向來對佛道都有基础認识的小少女滿意地點點頭

這一夜
她臨睡前只要求媽咪的亲吻及蓋被
而不是像上星期開始不斷要媽咪陪睡...........

2011-06-02 农历五月初一祭圣方/ 与爸爸video call/ 手工玩具愤怒鸟家族

爸爸公干一星期在首都及波德申。
这一晚是初一，妈咪和小姐姐在家祭拜，并使用影频与爸爸联线 video call 。
刚好爸爸到叔叔家，因此就一边祭拜，一边和叔叔及圣田弟弟通话。

小姐姐爱心手工制作玩具给圣方弟弟的“愤怒鸟家族”

2011-05-03 农历四月初一祭圣方

photo taken by 姐姐

除了平日时常生病，圣田弟弟上个月入驻医院数天，今天又传来进院的消息。。。

再生缘： 姐弟相似，妙不可言／伯母的魔术语

小田这趟回来过农历新年，小婶J 又有新发现告诉我：

• 小田笑时的咀形和神态，和枚姐姐小时候笑时的咀形和神态一模一样。是家婆先发觉，小婶J 也有同感。

• 小田的头型和枚姐姐的一样。是小田的外婆发现，小婶再向枚姐姐的头部查看确认的。

• 各自的父母音乐细胞不强，可是两姐弟都偏爱歌舞，唱作俱佳

当然，还有很多很多生活细节。

此外，凡是小田不听话、不吃药、不喝水、不吃食物、乱跑不停、不好好坐下、不坐车座等等时，只要小婶Ｊ指着我说：伯母叫你ＸＸＸＸ，像魔术语一般，小田马上静止下来，乘乘听我的话了。

再生缘： Again, it is another scarily accurate!

A heart to heart sharing: No one Can Never Neglect Fang's Presence

A heart to heart sharing with Pediatrician Dr Tan WL

[15:15] eugenice: my parents in law, sis in law also giving ang pao to Fang[15:15] eugenice: i put on the praying tray, later to buy things to pray him [15:16] Wan Lin Tan: pai seh to say lar.... hope you don't mind..... i felt that.... he probably is in heaven now, and why do you keep praying him?[15:17] Wan Lin Tan: or he probably would have reincarnated liao.....[15:17] Wan Lin Tan: what are you hoping for when you pray him?[15:17] eugenice: oh, i u/stand what u say[15:18] eugenice: but he is the stubborn type, insisted to stay with us[15:19] eugenice: besides Mei, i can feel him & his mind too these 2 years[15:19] eugenice: and[15:20] Wan Lin Tan: well.... if that's what he prefers.... then you should be doing the right thing[15:20] eugenice: each time when the younger generation come back and if not come to pray him, he will angry, Mei will have the similar suffering at that night [15:20] eugenice: so, aft the little ones praying, he is happy and all healthy[15:22] eugenice: otw, previously, all getting sick once they reached Pg[15:23] eugenice: and tell u, that day CNY eve, Tian 在拜祭圣方哥哥之后，顽皮地又拿起已经插在圣方炉里的一枝香起来玩弄[15:26] eugenice: 第二天早上，他马上被MIL 的一撮香直接插到眼皮，眉毛也被烧断成两段，眼皮起多粒水泡[15:29] Wan Lin Tan: he naughty mar......[15:30] eugenice: MIL hold Tian's hand to pray[15:30] eugenice: Fang really wanted to be together with us[15:30] eugenice: during trips[15:31] eugenice: if we forget to "bring" him together, Mei will hv the suffer at that night[15:31] eugenice: last Nov, aft our Sin trip, the night we back to Pg, Mei suffered again[15:32] eugenice: i "heard" Fang did not want to come back, he wanted to stay kai kai longer at Sin !!![15:32] eugenice: believe it or not[15:32] eugenice: many many more



[15:32] eugenice: in Jan, my hb had a trip to KL and he said will overnight at his bro hse for 1 night[15:33] eugenice: the night bef he departed to KL, Mei suddenly suffered again[15:33] eugenice: and we suddenly "heard" Fang wanted to follow papa to KL to play with Tian[15:34] eugenice: and aft we promised him,. the suffer immediately subsided [15:34] Wan Lin Tan: but.... do you think this is good for 'him'?
[15:34] eugenice: so......how could we stop praying or neglect his presence ?[15:34] Wan Lin Tan: he is so 'loyal' to your family[15:34] Wan Lin Tan: no, of course you cannot neglect his presence[15:35] eugenice: i know he is supposed not to be with us anymore, but sifu said he is stubborn type and he is still small, let him be[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: since he has shown his presence ... of course you can't neglect[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: perhaps so...... he is a kid, after all .....[15:35] eugenice: wait until another few more years, when he is bigger, he will u/stand and choose his way[15:35] eugenicel.com: we cant do anything to force him now[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: yup, hopefully he can make his own choice[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: for his own good

[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: does he listen to you?
[15:36] eugenice: yes, luckily he listened to me
[15:36] eugenice: there was once my MIL said 希望你快快投胎去好人家, Mei suffered immediately[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: son always more 'close' to mother[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: and will listen to mother[15:37] Wan Lin Tan: then better ask MIL not to say wrong things [15:37] eugenice: yes, they all know now
[15:38] Wan Lin Tan: he is so close to Tian coz they are brothers...right?[15:39] eugenice: exactly[15:39] Wan Lin Tan: "Fang" is the big brother.... correct?[15:40] eugenice: SIL told me that she is going to seek the infertility treatment again aft CNY[15:40] eugenice: yes, Fang, De.  then De reincarnated to become Tian[15:40] eugenice: as u know, she failed to conceive for long, her womb prob[15:40] Wan Lin Tan: hm.... probably that's what "Fang" is waiting for?[15:45] eugenice: [15:46] eugenice: i hope not again.....[15:53] Wan Lin Tan: hm......but he is close to his brother[15:53] Wan Lin Tan: and he is so loyal to your family[15:54] Wan Lin Tan: if you hope not, then what other options does he have?[15:54] eugenice: he is closer to Mei & I, just behave "hong so", wants to kai kai[15:55] eugenice: i hope he 往生极乐[15:55] eugenice: no more suffering[15:55] Wan Lin Tan: have you spoken to him then?[15:56] eugenice: yes, i also play the 佛号to him every night[16:05] eugenice: i just hope that he will not make his dear sis suffer whenever he is unhappy/ unsatisfied [16:05] eugenice: but nowadays, we know immediately when Mei started suffer, so cepat cepat pray & ok, no long suffer as before

2011-01-28 圣方６岁生日／ ＣＨＯＭＩ及小田祭哥哥

姑姑L 从新加坡返槟，带了小表妹ＣＨＯＭＩ随行。
这一天也是圣方哥哥的6岁生日，权姐姐一早就已提醒大家。

ＣＨＯＭＩ妹妹祭拜圣方哥哥，公公婆婆及姑姑也给了圣方生日及新年红包，爸爸妈妈及枚姐姐买了可爱的迷你蓝梅蛋糕及各式小食。

2011-2-1 和父母返槟准备过年的小田，也於夜间临睡前到我们家来为圣方哥哥上香。

2011-01-18 也爱旅行的圣方/ 农历十二月十五祭圣方

阿嬷煮的饭菜及jelly。

圣方长大了，像一般小孩般好玩、好出游旅行的天性。

去年尾我们全家到新加坡，回槟的那一晚，圣方闹了别扭。他乐不思蜀呢！
前几天，听到爸爸要到吉隆玻叔叔家，圣方半夜也表达了他要随爸爸去叔叔家的意愿，大概他是要和圣田弟弟一起玩吧！
妈咪当然一口就答应了，并一再交待爸爸一路开车，尤其是到叔叔家时，都要带着圣方同行。
圣方也保佑爸爸一路平安。

借胎法 borrowing fetus

1.借胎意義:
就是借他人的魂魄, 來轉生變其子.

2.借胎由來:
在古來就有. 即是民眾有結婚多年未產子. 因此求師法降符於有緣人士, 轉生其子, 讓其早日生子

3.借胎方法

借胎法包括:
前往產科楼等嬰靈 (嬰靈喜歡聚集之處)
前往探望坐月產妇等嬰靈 (嬰兒可能會喜歡換新的父母)
前往探望才早夭的嬰孩的家(因為嬰靈會駐留在生前的家)
插香借胎法
等等。

无论何种借胎法，即使成功把别人的孩子借过来，总有一天，借还是需要还给人，正所谓物归原主，命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求啊！

我初失圣德時, 小婶J 在49天內从吉隆坡赶來檳城探我三回, 又遵从家婆M 的教导，特別包了一封大紅包向我借胎, , 果然把圣德之靈成功借去生下圣田.

當時我迷迷糊糊收了小婶的這份大紅包, 幸好我事後得知真相, 赶緊在圣田出世時把数額相等的礼, 還給了圣田, 因為, 圣德是我的兒子, 我絕不"賣"掉兒子!!!

还有一位平时不怎联系的朋友，在我两回痛失爱儿的时候，对我特别好，驻守在医院床榻旁陪伴我，一星期来家里陪我几回，给我诸多鼓励，让我感动莫名。她也是久婚不孕一族啊！

圣德的婴灵，选择小叔小婶而没有选择她这位阿姨，因为圣德和黎家的因缘未了，他势必要回黎家的。


向看中的借胎目標拿取:
1.頭髮
2.指甲
3.襪子
4.身上的東西


在古代早己有了這种借胎法, <杜詩唐宋接受史> 當時稱之為奪胎法.
http://books.google.com.my/books?id=kUft_yfUXcQC&pg=PT327&lpg=PT327&dq=%E5%80%9F%E8%83%8E%E6%B3%95&source=bl&ots=rEEUVmTwCV&sig=mcsaDtClbiFLxiI39zILKAstZVY&hl=en&ei=DcspTZfzH5G0rAeq7LGqDA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=10&ved=0CG8Q6AEwCTgK#v=onepage&q&f=false

明朝著名的哲学家、谋略家、文学家、军事理论家、易学家、天文学家刘伯温大師在<形气章正诀>中寫:

坐空从旺从煞是为坐法，倚胎借胎破胎却属施用。
挨生傍气，或为脱壳借胎或为子投母腹。
脱煞逢生，或为借母养子或为以子救母。
http://www.fmtchina.com/fengshuicehua/gaiz/200805/19-52_9.html
http://www.tianyabook.com/zw/rongzhaisanbi/5.html


借胎的事蹟:
http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010458208
http://linea.pixnet.net/blog/post/22345615
http://www.meadol.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4396&extra=page%3D1%26filter%3Ddateline%26dateline%3D7948800%26typeid%3D40&ordertype=1


借胎脫苦的修道故事:
http://tw.myblog.yahoo.com/changdr0720/article?mid=-2&prev=709&l=f&fid=18

插香借胎法

在廟裡請人幫忙插香.可是在香中已被施下降頭符法.不知情的人.因為幫其借胎者插香
.3-7日內就會倒霉.慢慢死亡.

也有一說法是
這樣會讓註生娘娘以為那個幫他插香的男人是他的老公
然後就將那男人命中注定的孩子(1個或2個孩子...) 給那個小姐懷孕
在那個小姐懷孕之前
那個男人的原配妻子絕對不會懷孕
除非那個小姐平安生下小孩或是流產
這是以前人家的小老婆或情婦用的招數

不要幫人家放香進香爐，還有一些民間小常識........
Dun help others to put the “ heung” into the “heung” holder, it have some local knowledge
我和我老公去拜拜的時候 , 有個小姐站在助生娘娘的面前摸著肚子 ,要我老公幫他插香到香爐裡。
When I go pray wit my husband, one lady stand in front of “ help pregnant” God n touch her stomach, ask my husband to help her insert the “ heung” into the “ heung” holder
可是我一直覺得很怪異叫我老公不要幫 , 那個小姐還凶我說沒看到她手不方便 !?
But I feel very weird so ask my husband no need to help than the lady some more scold me that didnt saw her arm no convenience to insert the “ heung”
我老公以為她手受傷所以好心幫她放 , 等到我們拜完在路上看到她竟然四肢健全。
My husband thought that her arm hurt so help her, but when we finish pray then saw her actually very health on the road
趕快打電話問一位通靈的大哥 , 他說是有人教那位小姐這種方式來借胎 ,就教我們化解的方法...
So we direct call a brother that know “ unnatural thing” , he say someone teach this lady to borrow fetus this way, then teach us how to solve it… .
所以喔!!人不要太好心!!幫忙放香進香爐只能幫自家人放喔 !! 恐怖哦∼
so, dun be too kind!! Only can help ppl u know well to insert the “ heung” wo!!

So scary~

千萬不要將襪子脫給別人
never give ur sock to other
今天聽到一件非常駭人聽聞的消息，是真實事件...
Today I heard a real incident that very scary… .
有一個高中女生晚上在回家的時候 ... 在自家門前看到一位香港人，他說因為參加某某節目，跟某某人打賭，希望那女生把襪子給他一隻。
One secondary school gul when she go home… saw a Hong Kong citizen in front of her house, he say because he participate in wat wat wat program, then bet with someone, hopefully this gal can give him one sock.
因為那女生快要到家了，所以想進去拿一隻新的乾淨的。
Because the gal almost home, so she thinking about get a new one inside.
那個香港人說，就要她腳上那一隻，高中女生看她很誠懇的樣子，便把腳上的襪子脫下來給她。
That guy say wan the one she wear, the gul saw he look so sincere, then give the sock she is wearing to him..
香港人很高興，又有點不好意思，要塞 100元給那高中女生，因為她家非常富有，便堅持不收。
The guy very happy but also feel embarrassed, so give the gul 100 dollar, because she very rich, so she dun wan to take…
別以為事情就這樣結束了，那女生自從那一天候，精神就一直很不好.......
Dun think that this story end like this, that gul always feel tired n not well after that day…
她也不以此為意，結果，你們知道嗎？
She also dun mind, but do u know that..
那拿她襪子的人，不知道是養小鬼還是與惡魔打交道，要搶這女生的生命。
The guy who take her sock, dunno is foster “ little ghost” or deal with the devil, wan to take this gal life..
好在這個女生的爸爸，對易經與術術略有研究，知道這是有人在作怪，連夜帶這個女生去基隆找一位師傅。
Luckily this gal dad know a bit of “ special ability” , know that this is someone doing something bad on her, so faster take her go “ ki long” to find a Sifu…
這位師父劈頭就問那女生有沒有收人家的錢 !?那女生說沒有，師父說：「如果有收錢，命就救不回來了！」就這樣化解一場危機。
That sifu direct ask the gal got take the money bo? She say didn’ t, sifu say luckily didn’ t, if not than can’ t save her liao, like this the gal is secure…

那位師父說，因為現在的時機非常不好，很多大鬼小鬼都拿著令牌在尋人，因此凡是要小心，而且，要特別注意的是：
That sifu say because now timing very bad, a lot of big ghost small ghost looking for ppl, everything need to be careful, especially is:
女生絕對不要把下列七樣東西交給別人：gal never give ppl this 7 things:
1.頭髮1. hair
2.指甲2. nail
3.襪子3. sock
4.身上的東西 4. other thing u wear
其他我忘了，交給別人，「有心人」只要有其中一項，就可以要你的命！the rest I forget liao, those evil can take our life if have any of this
一切要小心，而且不要隨便拿陌生人的錢或東西，不要貪小便宜也不要濫用同情心 ....
Everything need to be careful, dun simply take other money or thing, dun be greedy n kind as well

如果您收到別人分享給您的好文章，不要吝嗇，您也可以繼續分享給好友，請別忘我這一份喔。
if u receive other ppl good article, dun be selfish to share, u can continue to share wit ur fren, dun forget mine.

當我們用心對人時,有心人將以熱情回報妳,希望我們都是用心的人 ,也是有心的人。
When we treat someone with real heart, someone with pay u back, hopefully we all r those ppl that “ use heart” n “ got heart”

2010-10-17 圣田第一次來我們家

近三岁的圣田, 由於來檳次数有限, 今午才第一次正式來我們家.

不過由於長輩們忘了提醒圣田, 並沒有拜祭他的前世哥哥～～圣方哥哥, 反而拿了圣方哥哥的玩具來玩.

超調皮的他, 一進到我們家就沖進沖出每一間房, 爬上每一張床上跳, 顯得興奮不已.

大家要回时，他還不想離開, 圣枚姐姐說 :" 明天和我一起上學考試吧! "

大家忙著看顧他, 阿婆最沒有忘記拜圣方. 像每一回來時样, 她會彎著腰和圣方說了很多話.

2010-08-09 Tian always sick & JC seeking help

照片取自小叔的面子書
由於小田看醫生頻頻, 這位新爸爸竟也在面子書上特開了一相冊上載孩子看醫生的照片.




[13:10] Jessie: hi sao sao
[13:12] Jessie: siao tian diarrhea for a week liao
[13:13] Jessie: say is because growth teeth wor....is it true?
[13:14] Eugenice: oh
[13:14] Eugenice: doc said?
[13:15] Jessie: nup doc said nothing, cos he is still active
[13:15] Eugenice: many reasons can cause diarrhea
[13:15] Jessie: those are old ppl said
[13:15] Eugenice: if caused by teeth growing, what abt his previous teeth? also fell sick when growing?
[13:16] Jessie: i think some teeth yes but not all
[13:16] Jessie: didnt really record every single thing
[13:16] Jessie: cannot remember liao
[13:17] Eugenice: if he had the same before, then maybe this time also yes
[13:17] Jessie: so challenging !!!!
[13:17] Jessie: how r u?
[13:17] Jessie: this end month long holidays, we may come back
[13:18] Eugenice: if he never sick when teeth growing, then maybe another reasons, eg: food, hygiene,drinks, etc
[13:18] Eugenice: i m here busy lo, u leh?
[13:18] Eugenice: so long no updates
[13:19] Jessie: he never complaint stomach ache
[13:19] Eugenice: eat? as usual? any changing in eating?
[13:20] Jessie: yup he eat as usual..play actively
[13:20] Jessie: no wor....just normal
[13:20] Jessie: except he started school lor...
[13:20] Jessie: and ever since then, always sick
[13:21] Eugenice: he eat at school?
[13:22] Jessie: yes
[13:22] Eugenice: morning session? half day?
[13:22] Eugenice: did u check what he was feed at school?
[13:31] Jessie: rice and vege
[13:31] Jessie: my mom also there in the school
[13:32] Jessie: not because of school food cos tian start diarrhea sunday nite
[13:33] Eugenice: diarrhea non-stop? how many time per day? watery? or soft stool? or only water?
[13:33] Jessie: soft stool, 5-6 times per day
[13:33] Eugenice: that means he eats a lot? or he has been eating too much?
[13:34] Jessie: normal
[13:34] Jessie: not alot....he usually eat less
[13:34] Jessie: so consider normal
[13:34] Eugenice: yes, i know he usually eat quite less, but if he pass out soft stool 5-6/day, means he is full inside worr
[13:35] Jessie: dun understand
[13:35] Eugenice: if diarrhea, aft 3-4 times, will only watery, bcos no more solid food in the stomach
[13:36] Jessie: he eat solid food ma
[13:36] Eugenice: so his total input of food=output of stool?
[13:37] Eugenice: can he control? or just pass on his pant?
[13:37] Jessie: i think so...
[13:37] Jessie: yday can control
[13:38] Eugenice: if cant control for many days, need to check on the colon 大肠
[13:39] Eugenice: what did your mom say? she is more qualified....i am just based on my knowledge
[13:46] Jessie: she not so ken cheong type geh
[13:46] Jessie: haha
[13:48] Eugenice: certain things must kan cheong, certain can ignore or delay
[13:51] Jessie: yday also visited doc....he said nothing
[13:51] Eugenice: running nose & cough is still ok, but don play play with fever & diarrhea
[13:51] Jessie: went twice liao
[13:51] Jessie: wed and yday nite
[13:52] Eugenice: did doc listen on tian's stomach movement?
[13:52] Jessie: yes
[13:52] Eugenice: so stomach normal right, what abt the colon?
[13:52] Jessie: colon duno
[13:54] Eugenice: then maybe u change to another doc & see

[14:04] Jessie: i call u...can?
[14:10] Jessie: what is colon check?
[14:13] Eugenice: [14:12] Chinseng Yeoh: did dr give antibiotics?
[14:13] Chinseng Yeoh: kids cannot check colon
[14:13] Eugenice: reply from a doc
[14:14] Eugenice: adults can only check colon, use scope
[14:14] Eugenice: for kids, only agak agak, suspect
[14:14] Jessie: not sure need to send him to do scope onot
[14:14] Eugenice: so normally doc only give a/biotic for kids
[14:15] Eugenice: oh no, kids cannot do scope
[14:15] Jessie: so shd i wait one more day?
[14:15] Eugenice: their lubang too small la
[14:15] Jessie: no wor....UH dun like to give a/biotic
[14:15] Eugenice: change doc
[14:16] Jessie: UH is two different doc...wed and last nite
[14:16] Jessie: not same
[14:17] Jessie: unless tonite i go to his usual kids doc
[14:17] Eugenice:
[14:16] Chinseng Yeoh: was the stool like "kaya" or dilute moi?
[14:17] Jessie: kaya
[14:17] Jessie: like kacang hijau bubur...with biji-biji
[14:17] Jessie: start with yellow now brown
[14:18] Eugenice: what r that biji-biji? the things he eaten?
[14:18] Jessie: nup is not the thing he ate...just the stool are like that...old ppl said that's the sign of growing teeth....akakakakkaka
[14:19] Jessie: but not the hard biji...just the stool look like biji biji

[14:29] Eugenice: waiting for doc reply, he has pt now
[14:29] Jessie: tq so much
[14:30] Eugenice: i will suggest not to delay, u can try go to other clinic/ kids hosp
[14:30] Jessie: clinic never help for tian
[14:30] Jessie: haha
[14:30] Jessie: all the time, he only can recover after seeing his so call 'doc' akakakkaka
[14:30] Eugenice: even diff doc, but as long as they are under same UH, the receive the same directive
[14:30] Jessie: today my mom said, so far so good
[14:31] Eugenice: so not going to school this wk/ last wk?
[14:31] Jessie: today not going
[14:31] Jessie: last week went 3 days
[14:32] Jessie: fri not sending him cos just swimming and play....i dun like the swimming thing
[14:32] Eugenice: swimming? the child care provides swimming?
[14:32] Eugenice: why u dont like? i thought u all like to swim
[14:33] Jessie: i dun like the pool they provide and too many kids in the small pool]
[14:33] Jessie: also day before water....very cool
[14:38] Eugenice: any family members also having diarrhoea?
[14:39] Jessie: KT diarrhea last sat but he was away in JB
[14:39] Jessie: he return sun nite after tian sudah tidur
[14:42] Eugenice: u mean kt got diarrhea while he was at jb? or started at KL then he travelled to jb? possible he got it at KL too?
[14:43] Jessie: while in JB
[14:43] Jessie: nup, got it in JB sat dinner
[14:44] Eugenice: then should not from the same bacteria/ virus
[14:47] Jessie: dun think so....
[14:48] Eugenice: [14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Try modiy his diet
[14:38] Chinseng Yeoh: give high fibre like veggies
[14:48] Jessie: egg ok?
[14:49] Jessie: mix egg and vege? cos tian dun really know how to eat vege yet :$

[14:50] Eugenice: [14:48] eugenice: need to go further for other checking?
[14:49] Chinseng Yeoh: if in doubt, better recheck
[14:50] Jessie: noted
[14:50] Jessie: tq tq
[14:51] Eugenice: recheck means to check with other doc from other hosp/ clinic, not the same hosp which running the same policy
[14:51] Jessie: k tx
[14:52] Eugenice: egg should be ok, it is protein
[14:52] Jessie: will inform my mom to cook egg + vege for him and try
[14:52] Jessie: he love egg now adays...just learn to eat nia
[14:53] Jessie: so can chop very tiny vege, add together
[14:53] Eugenice: what was his earlier sakit? bef diarrhea?
[14:53] Jessie: 1/7 start school....2/7 start flu
[14:53] Jessie: then high fever
[14:53] Jessie: two weeks no school
[14:54] Jessie: fever, flu + cough
[14:54] Jessie: after recover, start school back but after 3 days, flu again but minor
[14:54] Jessie: then sunday nite he dun want to go school, then he cry and vomit
[14:54] Jessie: monday nite say ok no need go school....stop crying and no issue
[14:55] Eugenice: aiyo
[14:55] Jessie: tue nite didnt mention school, he sleep normal hour, then midnite 2am, he cry and try to vomit but couldnt....very obvious is he try to vomit and pretent sick
[14:55] Jessie: then i learn, sometime kids can pretent sick wor
[14:56] Jessie: after stop aweek, start school back for one week but only like 3 days haha
[14:57] Jessie: last week was 2-5aug
[14:59] Eugenice: he doesnt like to go to school?
[14:59] Eugenice: why?
[14:59] Jessie: cos he scared my mom leave him
[15:00] Eugenice: wah...he is a boy wor, must brave
[15:00] Jessie: haha he cry like gal geh
[15:00] Eugenice: mei never cry since 1st day to childcare at age 3
[15:01] Jessie: brave gal



[14:11] eugenice: want to consult u
[14:11] eugenice: if a 2 y/o kid diarrhea for 1 wk, 5-6 time a day, visited doc twice, stomach ok
[14:12] eugenice: what r the possibilities? how to check colon for young kid?
[14:12] Chinseng Yeoh: did dr give antibiotics?
[14:13] Chinseng Yeoh: kids cannot check colon
[14:15] eugenice: no a/b given
[14:15] Chinseng Yeoh: was the sai watery?
[14:16] eugenice: soft stool
[14:16] Chinseng Yeoh: was the stool like kaya or dilute moi?
[14:17] eugenice: kaya
[14:17] Chinseng Yeoh: change the milk
[14:18] eugenice: now less taking milk, mostly solid food
[14:19] eugenice: the stool like kacang hijau bubur...with biji-biji, last wk started with yellow, now brown

[14:34] Chinseng Yeoh: your kid?
[14:34] eugenice: 2 y/o
[14:35] eugenice: u remember my history? the nephew which believed 投胎 from my son
[14:36] eugenice: the mom will ask me for whatever the kid is facing. The little boy will just listen to me. Funny right?
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: OIC
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: any family members also having diarrhoea?
[14:36] eugenice: no
[14:36] Chinseng Yeoh: He is your god son?
[14:36] eugenice: no, i dont want such relationship
[14:37] eugenice: the boy has special bonding with me
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Good lah got bonding
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Most likely the problems lie in his food
[14:37] Chinseng Yeoh: Try modiy his diet
[14:38] Chinseng Yeoh: give high fibre like veggies
[14:48] eugenice: need to go further for other checking?
[14:49] Chinseng Yeoh: if in doubt, better recheck