[15:15] eugenice: my parents in law, sis in law also giving ang pao to Fang[15:15] eugenice: i put on the praying tray, later to buy things to pray him [15:16] Wan Lin Tan: pai seh to say lar.... hope you don't mind..... i felt that.... he probably is in heaven now, and why do you keep praying him?[15:17] Wan Lin Tan: or he probably would have reincarnated liao.....[15:17] Wan Lin Tan: what are you hoping for when you pray him?[15:17] eugenice: oh, i u/stand what u say[15:18] eugenice: but he is the stubborn type, insisted to stay with us[15:19] eugenice: besides Mei, i can feel him & his mind too these 2 years[15:19] eugenice: and[15:20] Wan Lin Tan: well.... if that's what he prefers.... then you should be doing the right thing[15:20] eugenice: each time when the younger generation come back and if not come to pray him, he will angry, Mei will have the similar suffering at that night [15:20] eugenice: so, aft the little ones praying, he is happy and all healthy[15:22] eugenice: otw, previously, all getting sick once they reached Pg[15:23] eugenice: and tell u, that day CNY eve, Tian 在拜祭圣方哥哥之后，顽皮地又拿起已经插在圣方炉里的一枝香起来玩弄[15:26] eugenice: 第二天早上，他马上被MIL 的一撮香直接插到眼皮，眉毛也被烧断成两段，眼皮起多粒水泡[15:29] Wan Lin Tan: he naughty mar......[15:30] eugenice: MIL hold Tian's hand to pray[15:30] eugenice: Fang really wanted to be together with us[15:30] eugenice: during trips[15:31] eugenice: if we forget to "bring" him together, Mei will hv the suffer at that night[15:31] eugenice: last Nov, aft our Sin trip, the night we back to Pg, Mei suffered again[15:32] eugenice: i "heard" Fang did not want to come back, he wanted to stay kai kai longer at Sin !!![15:32] eugenice: believe it or not[15:32] eugenice: many many more
[15:32] eugenice: in Jan, my hb had a trip to KL and he said will overnight at his bro hse for 1 night[15:33] eugenice: the night bef he departed to KL, Mei suddenly suffered again[15:33] eugenice: and we suddenly "heard" Fang wanted to follow papa to KL to play with Tian[15:34] eugenice: and aft we promised him,. the suffer immediately subsided [15:34] Wan Lin Tan: but.... do you think this is good for 'him'?
[15:34] eugenice: so......how could we stop praying or neglect his presence ?[15:34] Wan Lin Tan: he is so 'loyal' to your family[15:34] Wan Lin Tan: no, of course you cannot neglect his presence[15:35] eugenice: i know he is supposed not to be with us anymore, but sifu said he is stubborn type and he is still small, let him be[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: since he has shown his presence ... of course you can't neglect[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: perhaps so...... he is a kid, after all .....[15:35] eugenice: wait until another few more years, when he is bigger, he will u/stand and choose his way[15:35] eugenicel.com: we cant do anything to force him now[15:35] Wan Lin Tan: yup, hopefully he can make his own choice[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: for his own good
[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: does he listen to you?
[15:36] eugenice: yes, luckily he listened to me
[15:36] eugenice: there was once my MIL said 希望你快快投胎去好人家, Mei suffered immediately[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: son always more 'close' to mother[15:36] Wan Lin Tan: and will listen to mother[15:37] Wan Lin Tan: then better ask MIL not to say wrong things
[15:37] eugenice: yes, they all know now[15:38] Wan Lin Tan: he is so close to Tian coz they are brothers...right?[15:39] eugenice: exactly[15:39] Wan Lin Tan: "Fang" is the big brother.... correct?[15:40] eugenice: SIL told me that she is going to seek the infertility treatment again aft CNY[15:40] eugenice: yes, Fang, De. then De reincarnated to become Tian[15:40] eugenice: as u know, she failed to conceive for long, her womb prob[15:40] Wan Lin Tan: hm.... probably that's what "Fang" is waiting for?[15:45] eugenice:
[15:46] eugenice: i hope not again.....[15:53] Wan Lin Tan: hm......but he is close to his brother[15:53] Wan Lin Tan: and he is so loyal to your family[15:54] Wan Lin Tan: if you hope not, then what other options does he have?[15:54] eugenice: he is closer to Mei & I, just behave "hong so", wants to kai kai[15:55] eugenice: i hope he 往生极乐[15:55] eugenice: no more suffering[15:55] Wan Lin Tan: have you spoken to him then?[15:56] eugenice: yes, i also play the 佛号to him every night[16:05] eugenice: i just hope that he will not make his dear sis suffer whenever he is unhappy/ unsatisfied [16:05] eugenice: but nowadays, we know immediately when Mei started suffer, so cepat cepat pray & ok, no long suffer as before
