But when we understand the Buddhism and 投胎轮回转世, it is actually very common and no fear at all.
西藏活佛一投胎，佛教界可以马上感应到他的出生地，千里迢迢去确认。
当活佛略为长大后，把他带到如迷宫般的西藏宫殿，首次进宫的他，竟然可以在千百个迂旋千回的宫殿里，找到他前世的座位。这又怎么说呢？
佛说，生命是轮回转化，每一个生命都是一场投胎。
而我，本身就是一个眼前最好的证明！
MYSELF is the best testimony of a reincarnated life within a family!
This beautiful young lady Tan Yee Gan 陈怡颜 was younger sister of my 外公 grandfather Tan Hock Seong 陈福嵩.
She was a lovely and kind hearted fair young lady. Unfortunately she passed away in a suffer of Acute Appendicitis 急性盲肠炎during the Japanese Occupation time. No medical aid provided and she lost her precious life during the war at the age of 18, causing the Tan family fell into the deep pain.
Although scientifically cannot be tested & proved, I know she was my previous 前世 since I was a little girl.
Ever since i was small, every relatives who saw me will amazed that I looked similar to her....not face, but 神韵举止, behavior and character.
佛书说，往生者若有心回来这个家庭，灵魂将争取在49天内投胎，如果失掉49天内的机会，那就必须等待下一辈子回来作孙子了。
战乱期间，陈家痛失爱女，根本没有心情去制造新生命，so she had no chance to 投胎 within 49days
and may waited for another generation to 投胎回自己的家, then, she got the chance from her only brother (我的外公) ，就有了我这个孙女啦！
“一个灵魂，在两个不同的驱体里”
从小女孩开始，每一位见着我的亲友长辈，都会惊讶於我与陈怡颜姑婆的相似，而我，从开始阶段的震惊、到抗拒、到疑惑、到适应、到接受，到如今的引以为荣，毕竟不是每个人都可以幸运地知道自己的前世今生哪！
当妈妈从旧书柜里翻找出陈怡颜姑婆生前的照片交给我时，我即刻有种无法言语的熟悉感，视之如宝！
隔代之亲，我想，这就是西方轮回投胎研究学专家所说的“一个灵魂，在两个不同的驱体里”吧！
