小叔一家临时返槟清明，圣田也正式拜拜兄长圣方。
这是小叔从家婆M处得知圣德投胎成为圣田的事实真相之后，第一次的见面。
小叔完全接受圣田的投胎事实。
这两天在槟城，小叔不断把圣田交给孟达和我抱，并叫我们去KL 找他们，也多次把圣田交给圣枚姐姐一起玩。
至於小婶，她之前都已多次刻意地把圣田交给我怀中说 “伯母抱，伯母抱”，她自己奇迹怀孕生下圣田，母子连心，她心中肯定有数的。只是，大家都不说出来更好吧！
圣德可以成功投胎回黎家，成为小叔小婶的儿子圣田，还有外婆的全心照料，他应该会有个快乐的成长及家庭生活。孟和我，总算心安了。
陪同前来的小叔岳母大人Auntie Lily，昨晚高兴地对我说，她的大媳妇 Belinda 又怀孕了。
我恭喜她：咦？ 这么快啊？Belinda 不是才生不久吗？比圣田大几个月而已。
亲家奶奶说，是啊！一岁多接近两岁，第二胎生到来是隔两年。
她接下去说：我这个女儿就难了，我看她就只能有圣田一个孩子，唔生得了。。。
我问：“哦？ 为什么呢？”
亲家奶奶说：她 的子宫不好，很weak，一直都很难受孕.......她有得生出这个圣田，已经很不错了。
真是知女莫若母，更何况她在医院工作几十年，当年也是她带小婶去求诊不孕专科Prof Paul。
对於女儿的不孕及子宫的问题，她是完全知道的。
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
2009-03-27 清明/ 农历三月初一祭圣方
清明时节雨纷纷，路上行人欲断魂.....
妈咪买了衣物及玩具烧给圣方，爸爸就在每一件上写上圣方的名字
妈咪和圣方谈心，买了脚车让圣方踏，改天一起到交通公园............
阿婆双手合十，对着圣方呢喃.......
圣枚姐姐演奏儿歌给圣方听
妈咪买了衣物及玩具烧给圣方，爸爸就在每一件上写上圣方的名字
妈咪和圣方谈心，买了脚车让圣方踏，改天一起到交通公园............
阿婆双手合十，对着圣方呢喃.......
圣枚姐姐演奏儿歌给圣方听
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Sunday, March 8, 2009
2009-03-08 圣方的长相：“我的家庭”
学校绘画老师上星期出题“我的家庭”，让学生们在课室内发挥。
这天，圣枚把她所绘画的“我的家庭” 拿回家炫耀给大家看，并一一解释。爸爸头歪歪的，妈咪又是怎样的、她自己又是怎样的。
阿婆问圣枚：左边这个小孩是谁呢？怎么他的头也歪歪的？
圣枚很自然地回答说：这个是圣方弟弟啦！
阿婆马上问：哦？圣方弟弟也是头歪歪的吗？
圣枚：是啊！他和爸爸一样头歪歪的。圣方弟弟的咀巴是这样的（说着，嘟起她的小咀巴示范）
阿婆： 是啊？ 你看到他这样的啊？
圣枚： 是啦！他是这个样子的。
晚上爸爸回来，圣枚也重覆着同样的形容词来描述圣方的长相。
童言最真，师父当初都说他俩姐弟是可以相见通灵的。
难怪圣枚一有空就想和圣方玩，然后把她的玩具摆放在圣方香炉前玩乐。
此情此景，是何其辛酸啊！
这天，圣枚把她所绘画的“我的家庭” 拿回家炫耀给大家看，并一一解释。爸爸头歪歪的，妈咪又是怎样的、她自己又是怎样的。
阿婆问圣枚：左边这个小孩是谁呢？怎么他的头也歪歪的？
圣枚很自然地回答说：这个是圣方弟弟啦！
阿婆马上问：哦？圣方弟弟也是头歪歪的吗？
圣枚：是啊！他和爸爸一样头歪歪的。圣方弟弟的咀巴是这样的（说着，嘟起她的小咀巴示范）
阿婆： 是啊？ 你看到他这样的啊？
圣枚： 是啦！他是这个样子的。
晚上爸爸回来，圣枚也重覆着同样的形容词来描述圣方的长相。
童言最真，师父当初都说他俩姐弟是可以相见通灵的。
难怪圣枚一有空就想和圣方玩，然后把她的玩具摆放在圣方香炉前玩乐。
此情此景，是何其辛酸啊！
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
2009-03-03 Letter to KT
KT,
It was shock when we heard from ma that she has told you about the truth of 圣德投胎作了圣田.
Sorry that ma is always a big mouth.......it is not our intention to disclose to you neither JC.
For the past 2 years++, both Menn & I thought of keeping this as a secret away from you for life time. But since ma has been telling the first sentence with some wrong info, we decided to tell you the truth of the whole thing so that you understand and will not be mislead.
And also, we think, you, as father to Tian, should not be hide away too. Menn said there should not be any secret within family members.
We believe in science. We see things with evidences. We are not day dreaming.
I would like you to know that all this are proven by many medical doctors with convincing health & time factor:
It all depend on you whether to tell JC or not. But pls be assured that we are not trying to get any credit or "grab" the son from you or any other intention. You dont have to worry about that.
We are also happy that you have a son finally.
There are 2 major incidents happened in the family these years: one is the 因果报应of ma's curse 大妈不能生儿子 which I believe JC has already told u. The other one is 投胎轮回在自家 which I did not tell JC.
I will be sending you a private blog of mine. You can log in with your ID so that you can be accessed to the blog anytime. Otw it is only valid for 30days.
Pls read from the archive Feb 2007 for your read flow.
除了有我无尽的爱、思念、感恩和宽恕，这里还结合了对医学、神学、生命学、生死学、各宗教的丁点研究及成果。因果报应与轮回的奥妙，真是奇准无比！
It was shock when we heard from ma that she has told you about the truth of 圣德投胎作了圣田.
Sorry that ma is always a big mouth.......it is not our intention to disclose to you neither JC.
For the past 2 years++, both Menn & I thought of keeping this as a secret away from you for life time. But since ma has been telling the first sentence with some wrong info, we decided to tell you the truth of the whole thing so that you understand and will not be mislead.
And also, we think, you, as father to Tian, should not be hide away too. Menn said there should not be any secret within family members.
We believe in science. We see things with evidences. We are not day dreaming.
I would like you to know that all this are proven by many medical doctors with convincing health & time factor:
- In end of Apr 2007, sifu told us Shen De is coming back to 黎家，我们还在纳闷。
- Few wks later, JC was found pregnant, the conceive date was so accurate that aft her visit from my hse and also after she gave me that 接走孩子的红包利息.
- When JC suffering, 佛学院院长介绍我们去超渡，JC 果然好起来。
- When Prof Paul operate her in Jan 08, found her womb is flabby 不孕型........
It all depend on you whether to tell JC or not. But pls be assured that we are not trying to get any credit or "grab" the son from you or any other intention. You dont have to worry about that.
We are also happy that you have a son finally.
There are 2 major incidents happened in the family these years: one is the 因果报应of ma's curse 大妈不能生儿子 which I believe JC has already told u. The other one is 投胎轮回在自家 which I did not tell JC.
I will be sending you a private blog of mine. You can log in with your ID so that you can be accessed to the blog anytime. Otw it is only valid for 30days.
Pls read from the archive Feb 2007 for your read flow.
除了有我无尽的爱、思念、感恩和宽恕，这里还结合了对医学、神学、生命学、生死学、各宗教的丁点研究及成果。因果报应与轮回的奥妙，真是奇准无比！
Tian really looks like that angel in my dream
[15:56] Wan Lin Tan: eh... now that you mentioned it, Tian really looks like that angel 
[15:56] Wan Lin Tan: i agree
[17:24] eugenice: funny right?
[17:25] eugenice: 田越大越像，每见田一次，就想起我的天使一次
[17:25] eugenice: 可是，这天使已在2007年就有了，田是2008年才生
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: try to learn to let go
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: you'll feel better
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: let the angel live in your heart forever
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: learn to live with this angel too
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: this angel is supposed to make you happy
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: not to let you shed tears
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: i am sure you can do it
[17:34] eugenice: yes, now i only remember De as an angel
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: that's right
[17:34] eugenice: that's why when i cant see it last wk, so sad
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: he is an angel
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: both of them are angels
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: don't feel sad
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: think of it the other way
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: the angel has gone to a better place
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: to be with our God forever
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: next to Him
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: taken care by Him
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan:
我愿变成童话里
你爱的那个天使
张开双手
变成翅膀守护你
你要相信
相信我们会像童话故事里
幸福和快乐是结局
[15:56] Wan Lin Tan: i agree
[17:24] eugenice: funny right?
[17:25] eugenice: 田越大越像，每见田一次，就想起我的天使一次
[17:25] eugenice: 可是，这天使已在2007年就有了，田是2008年才生
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: try to learn to let go
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: you'll feel better
[17:33] Wan Lin Tan: let the angel live in your heart forever
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: learn to live with this angel too
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: this angel is supposed to make you happy
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: not to let you shed tears
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: i am sure you can do it
[17:34] eugenice: yes, now i only remember De as an angel
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: that's right
[17:34] eugenice: that's why when i cant see it last wk, so sad
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: he is an angel
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: both of them are angels
[17:34] Wan Lin Tan: don't feel sad
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: think of it the other way
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: the angel has gone to a better place
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: to be with our God forever
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: next to Him
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan: taken care by Him
[17:35] Wan Lin Tan:
我愿变成童话里
你爱的那个天使
张开双手
变成翅膀守护你
你要相信
相信我们会像童话故事里
幸福和快乐是结局
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