佛说，生命是轮回转化，每一个生命都是一场投胎。
对此，佛书清清楚楚地记载着：
“你相信，它是有存在的，
你不相信，它还是一样存在！”
当一个人离世之后，如果他感到依依不舍，他的灵魂不会马上离开生前的家。
他可以逗留在那儿49天，并尽量争取每一个投胎回来的机会。
如果49天内有机会，他会马上投胎回来，否则他会等候下一代，回来作孙子孙女。
感谢佛祖的慈悲恩赐，让圣德在49天内成功投胎再回到黎家来，作黎家的子孙，免遭受无法界苦难。
Monday, May 28, 2007
Friday, May 25, 2007
25/5/2007————马上见证：小婶有孕了！
啊！佛说儿子４９天内回来投胎作兄弟的孩子，马上就见证了！
2007-5-25，当我与同事共用午餐时，孟SMS通知我说，接获弟弟从吉隆坡报来好消息，久无受孕的小婶，刚验出怀孕6周（医学上正确胎儿生命期是４周，因首两周尚未排卵受孕）。
啊！我数天前才刚刚从佛堂及佛书获得的讯息，（指我的儿子已投胎回来自已的家，以及佛书上白纸黑字写着的４９天内投胎回来作兄弟的孩子），马上就见证了！
我马上寄发短讯给小婶恭贺她，并促她小心照顾自已。她告诉我预产期在2008年1月18日。
啊！我几乎尖叫起来，中马票都没这么准。通过妇科的胎儿日历推算回去，小婶的受孕期果然是在我产下圣德的两周后，也即是她到槟城来家里看慰我之后的一周内。
后来，根据佛友说，小婶於我产后一周到我家慰问我，再於49天内4度从吉隆坡赶来槟城探我，当时尚留在家中的圣德的婴灵，就马上跟着她去了。
小婶临走返回吉隆坡时，家婆吩咐她再另外送来RM300红包，就是要她把我的儿子接过去投胎的意头，也就是说，久无受孕的小婶听从家婆的指导，以红包来向我买胎。
佛说，圣德成功被接过胎灵，因为圣德和黎家的缘份未尽，也执着於和父母的缘份，所以他要再回来这个家，再续前缘就是这个意思了。
得知圣德已成功投胎，再回到黎家，我的心安了。感谢佛祖的慈悲恩赐，让圣德得以在49天内投胎再回到黎家来，免遭受无法界苦难。
佛说，生命是轮回转化，佛书清清楚楚地记载着：
“你相信，它是有存在的，
你不相信，它还是一样存在”
产假回来上班时，我发了一封电邮给各位关心者，向大家报个平安，并感谢他们的安慰、探望及礼品。
我也发了一封电邮给小叔夫妇，并ＣＣ给孟及璘，祈祝小婶大小一切平安。
2007-5-25，当我与同事共用午餐时，孟SMS通知我说，接获弟弟从吉隆坡报来好消息，久无受孕的小婶，刚验出怀孕6周（医学上正确胎儿生命期是４周，因首两周尚未排卵受孕）。
啊！我数天前才刚刚从佛堂及佛书获得的讯息，（指我的儿子已投胎回来自已的家，以及佛书上白纸黑字写着的４９天内投胎回来作兄弟的孩子），马上就见证了！
我马上寄发短讯给小婶恭贺她，并促她小心照顾自已。她告诉我预产期在2008年1月18日。
啊！我几乎尖叫起来，中马票都没这么准。通过妇科的胎儿日历推算回去，小婶的受孕期果然是在我产下圣德的两周后，也即是她到槟城来家里看慰我之后的一周内。
后来，根据佛友说，小婶於我产后一周到我家慰问我，再於49天内4度从吉隆坡赶来槟城探我，当时尚留在家中的圣德的婴灵，就马上跟着她去了。
小婶临走返回吉隆坡时，家婆吩咐她再另外送来RM300红包，就是要她把我的儿子接过去投胎的意头，也就是说，久无受孕的小婶听从家婆的指导，以红包来向我买胎。
佛说，圣德成功被接过胎灵，因为圣德和黎家的缘份未尽，也执着於和父母的缘份，所以他要再回来这个家，再续前缘就是这个意思了。
得知圣德已成功投胎，再回到黎家，我的心安了。感谢佛祖的慈悲恩赐，让圣德得以在49天内投胎再回到黎家来，免遭受无法界苦难。
佛说，生命是轮回转化，佛书清清楚楚地记载着：
“你相信，它是有存在的，
你不相信，它还是一样存在”
产假回来上班时，我发了一封电邮给各位关心者，向大家报个平安，并感谢他们的安慰、探望及礼品。
我也发了一封电邮给小叔夫妇，并ＣＣ给孟及璘，祈祝小婶大小一切平安。
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
5/2007————为圣德修福
自从圣德离开我们之后，我们以黎圣德之名，定期捐款慈善救济金，为圣德积福修行，心中也时常诵经念佛，把功德回向给圣德。
此外，我们也进行了布施、助印、放生等，为圣德寻找一个作人的解脱因缘，再投胎来当个有善根、福德、智慧的好孩子。
此外，我们也进行了布施、助印、放生等，为圣德寻找一个作人的解脱因缘，再投胎来当个有善根、福德、智慧的好孩子。
Friday, May 18, 2007
18/5/2007 我的儿子已投胎回自己的家？？？
在法力高超的许生的协助下，他为我们夫妻作了驱咒法，以中止家婆过去数十年的恶咒所带给子孙的因果报应。
孟和我坐在佛坛的正中地上，由许生亲自为我们施法。
因为恶咒几十年积深，他集中功力，过后，许生告诉我说，放心，现在家婆的口业恶咒已除，以后，黎家就可以有男孩后代了。
我苦笑，摇摇头告诉他，这么伤身又伤心的事，我已放弃了。我不想再怀胎了。
临走时，我问他，“我的儿子好吗？我需要祭拜吗？他怎样了？我好想他.....”
他说：不必拜了，你儿子已投胎了。放心，他投胎回来你家，将会作回自家人，你还会再看到他的。
什么？投胎回来自己的家？
我想进一步问他，可是，师父摇摇手不说，只讲了一句话：“以后就会知道”。
一路上，我心中纳闷，我才作人工流产，小姑又比我有孕在先６个星期，家婆说小婶是不孕的，究竟我的儿子投胎在哪里？！心中还有点半信半疑…..
回到家里，对於我的儿子已投胎回作自家人的事，百思不得其解，无法入眠。
我打开一本数天前我从佛学院拿回的佛书，都是有关前世今生、生命的轮回转世、堕胎的恶果、养育儿女的缘份的。
翻阅着佛书，忽然在我眼前跳出一句白纸黑字写着：“如果49天内有机缘，孩子肯定会投胎回来你家，作你兄弟的儿子。如果没有这个机缘，他就等待轮回，再来作你的孙子。”
看着，我马上把这页佛语交给孟看，他也惊讶不已，心中充满问号。？？？
孟和我坐在佛坛的正中地上，由许生亲自为我们施法。
因为恶咒几十年积深，他集中功力，过后，许生告诉我说，放心，现在家婆的口业恶咒已除，以后，黎家就可以有男孩后代了。
我苦笑，摇摇头告诉他，这么伤身又伤心的事，我已放弃了。我不想再怀胎了。
临走时，我问他，“我的儿子好吗？我需要祭拜吗？他怎样了？我好想他.....”
他说：不必拜了，你儿子已投胎了。放心，他投胎回来你家，将会作回自家人，你还会再看到他的。
什么？投胎回来自己的家？
我想进一步问他，可是，师父摇摇手不说，只讲了一句话：“以后就会知道”。
一路上，我心中纳闷，我才作人工流产，小姑又比我有孕在先６个星期，家婆说小婶是不孕的，究竟我的儿子投胎在哪里？！心中还有点半信半疑…..
回到家里，对於我的儿子已投胎回作自家人的事，百思不得其解，无法入眠。
我打开一本数天前我从佛学院拿回的佛书，都是有关前世今生、生命的轮回转世、堕胎的恶果、养育儿女的缘份的。
翻阅着佛书，忽然在我眼前跳出一句白纸黑字写着：“如果49天内有机缘，孩子肯定会投胎回来你家，作你兄弟的儿子。如果没有这个机缘，他就等待轮回，再来作你的孙子。”
看着，我马上把这页佛语交给孟看，他也惊讶不已，心中充满问号。？？？
18/5/2007————终於知道为何我连失二儿
终於知道我莫明其妙连失两男胎的原因了！
圣德“满月”之后，我们去了一趟神庙齊天宮活佛。
我向来相信科学、相信证据。过去是个不信佛道的人，学生时代还每周上教堂，信上帝多过信佛道。
自从２年前当圣枚连续2星期每晚半夜起来“中邪”式地哭闹而获得许生的解决之后，不禁让我开始相信佛道。对他身为教育文人，长期义务救世济人之善行，以及灵通阴阳两界的功力佩服不已。
这一回，如今3个专科医生及新加坡的教授都对我的胎儿中途变卦感到惊奇，我夫妻俩身心正常，饮食健康，也没有基因问题，接连两次失掉两胎男孩都是毫无医学原因。
我把过程告诉许生，想寻问究竟是什么原因。
许生口中念了一些咒语，烧了一张符，再专注瞄准我的脸，就马上“看”到了。
他说： 你被人诅咒了！很久的了！ ("lay")
我吓了一跳，是谁？我又没有和人结怨，也没有仇敌，到底是谁和我有深仇大恨，这么狠心要我失去儿子.....
他说：这是关系到你的家人的，我不想轻易说出来。你今晚回去，临睡前烧3柱香，向大圣爷祈求赐梦，让你梦见真相。
他在3枝大香上念了一些咒语，划了一些符号，交给我拿回家依法行事。
这一夜，我彻夜难眠，心中害怕极了。关系到我的家人，谁咒我呢？
工作上习惯出入法庭的我，急着想和道究竟是怎么一回事？
失眠的夜里，耳际边不断传来又远又近的女声，重复着说：ba lan 你没仔生 ...ba lan 你没仔生 .... ba lan 你没仔生 .....ba lan 你没仔生 ...... ba lan 你没仔生 ......ba lan 你没仔生
我再度哭得崩溃！
第二天问到佛坛，他问我：你昨晚梦到什么？
我说：我一夜没睡，没有梦。
他说：没关系，我已看到很清楚。是你家中的一个女长辈！
他问：有没有带你家翁家婆的生辰八字来？
我们感到奇怪，有关系他们吗？就不正面地回答说：其实家翁家婆共有三个，家翁娶了两个太太。
他竟说：与另一个无关，是你本身的家婆口业造孽，诅咒别人不能生儿子，这个咒几十年了。因果报应在你们子孙身上，所以你的儿子一个个都半途没了！
我整个人呆傻了，无法言语，身体在发抖。
他也接着问我：是不是？ 你家婆有没有男孙？
啊！是呀！我两个男胎都半途没有了，小婶J 又久试无孕。大妈确是没有儿子，而黎家确是没有男孙。
对一个完全不知道黎家上一代三角婚姻的外人，他竟可以准确地看到，而且这些都是整个家族都亲眼亲耳见证的事实：——家婆（小妾）在过去40年都长期诅咒大妈“没仔生”，大妈经她恶咒，果然无法生儿子。
如今，恶果循环，因果报应回到家婆的子孙来了！而孟与我，长子长媳，首当其冲，要生男孩是不行了。
终於知道我莫明其妙连失两男胎的原因了！
这就是佛说的因果报应。而口业诅咒他人，更是所有的恶行中最恶毒的。
我恍然大悟，难怪我俩一切正常，生活健康、饮食重视营养安全，首胎女婴圣枚平安顺利，接下来的两个男胎都半途变卦，现在，圣德更是发生问题在其男性生殖器官，连专科医生及教授也不解，真是不得不信因果报应了。
圣德“满月”之后，我们去了一趟神庙齊天宮活佛。
我向来相信科学、相信证据。过去是个不信佛道的人，学生时代还每周上教堂，信上帝多过信佛道。
自从２年前当圣枚连续2星期每晚半夜起来“中邪”式地哭闹而获得许生的解决之后，不禁让我开始相信佛道。对他身为教育文人，长期义务救世济人之善行，以及灵通阴阳两界的功力佩服不已。
这一回，如今3个专科医生及新加坡的教授都对我的胎儿中途变卦感到惊奇，我夫妻俩身心正常，饮食健康，也没有基因问题，接连两次失掉两胎男孩都是毫无医学原因。
我把过程告诉许生，想寻问究竟是什么原因。
许生口中念了一些咒语，烧了一张符，再专注瞄准我的脸，就马上“看”到了。
他说： 你被人诅咒了！很久的了！ ("lay")
我吓了一跳，是谁？我又没有和人结怨，也没有仇敌，到底是谁和我有深仇大恨，这么狠心要我失去儿子.....
他说：这是关系到你的家人的，我不想轻易说出来。你今晚回去，临睡前烧3柱香，向大圣爷祈求赐梦，让你梦见真相。
他在3枝大香上念了一些咒语，划了一些符号，交给我拿回家依法行事。
这一夜，我彻夜难眠，心中害怕极了。关系到我的家人，谁咒我呢？
工作上习惯出入法庭的我，急着想和道究竟是怎么一回事？
失眠的夜里，耳际边不断传来又远又近的女声，重复着说：ba lan 你没仔生 ...ba lan 你没仔生 .... ba lan 你没仔生 .....ba lan 你没仔生 ...... ba lan 你没仔生 ......ba lan 你没仔生
我再度哭得崩溃！
第二天问到佛坛，他问我：你昨晚梦到什么？
我说：我一夜没睡，没有梦。
他说：没关系，我已看到很清楚。是你家中的一个女长辈！
他问：有没有带你家翁家婆的生辰八字来？
我们感到奇怪，有关系他们吗？就不正面地回答说：其实家翁家婆共有三个，家翁娶了两个太太。
他竟说：与另一个无关，是你本身的家婆口业造孽，诅咒别人不能生儿子，这个咒几十年了。因果报应在你们子孙身上，所以你的儿子一个个都半途没了！
我整个人呆傻了，无法言语，身体在发抖。
他也接着问我：是不是？ 你家婆有没有男孙？
啊！是呀！我两个男胎都半途没有了，小婶J 又久试无孕。大妈确是没有儿子，而黎家确是没有男孙。
对一个完全不知道黎家上一代三角婚姻的外人，他竟可以准确地看到，而且这些都是整个家族都亲眼亲耳见证的事实：——家婆（小妾）在过去40年都长期诅咒大妈“没仔生”，大妈经她恶咒，果然无法生儿子。
如今，恶果循环，因果报应回到家婆的子孙来了！而孟与我，长子长媳，首当其冲，要生男孩是不行了。
终於知道我莫明其妙连失两男胎的原因了！
这就是佛说的因果报应。而口业诅咒他人，更是所有的恶行中最恶毒的。
我恍然大悟，难怪我俩一切正常，生活健康、饮食重视营养安全，首胎女婴圣枚平安顺利，接下来的两个男胎都半途变卦，现在，圣德更是发生问题在其男性生殖器官，连专科医生及教授也不解，真是不得不信因果报应了。
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
16/5/2007————阿弥陀佛，圣德，谢谢你这么疼爱妈咪
我问佛学院园长吴秀琨说：是不是我不够福报与缘份，留不住圣德作我的儿子。佛学院园长说：不是的，反而是你平日有修行积德积善，太有福报，儿子不舍得拖累你、折磨你，所以儿子选择提早离开，不再让你承受更多更久更大的伤害。
试想想，一般妇产科医生在怀胎期无法检查出的男性生殖器阻塞，我竟然遇上贵人医生（伍炳华）及教授，有经验的慧眼加上邻国先进的医疗设备，才得以在我产前发现。
否则，当胎儿足月产下后，对孩子、对家人所造成的心恸及痛苦将是永无止尽的。
听后，我泪如雨下，阿弥陀佛，圣德，谢谢你这么疼爱妈咪，只是，我的心有太多不舍、太多难过.....
现在，妈咪听你的意思，将我们的母子缘放下了，希望你一路走好，
我等待師父的話, 待你投胎之后，我们还会相见的。
是的，园长的这段心语，过后我也在参读佛书时，清楚地阅读到。
试想想，一般妇产科医生在怀胎期无法检查出的男性生殖器阻塞，我竟然遇上贵人医生（伍炳华）及教授，有经验的慧眼加上邻国先进的医疗设备，才得以在我产前发现。
否则，当胎儿足月产下后，对孩子、对家人所造成的心恸及痛苦将是永无止尽的。
听后，我泪如雨下，阿弥陀佛，圣德，谢谢你这么疼爱妈咪，只是，我的心有太多不舍、太多难过.....
现在，妈咪听你的意思，将我们的母子缘放下了，希望你一路走好，
我等待師父的話, 待你投胎之后，我们还会相见的。
是的，园长的这段心语，过后我也在参读佛书时，清楚地阅读到。
Monday, May 14, 2007
14/5/2007————黎圣方、黎圣德，正式记载在黎家的族谱里
听从佛教界人士的指导，我们在圣德满月的这一天，为圣德作了祭拜及命名礼，也同时为两年前子宫外孕紧急人工流产的男胎命名。
家翁（公公）为你取了圣德，根据黎家的族谱，这一代的圣字辈。我也为长你两岁的哥哥，取了圣方。
从此，黎圣方、黎圣德，将正式记载在黎家的族谱里。
现在，我的两个儿子圣方（2005）以及圣德（2007），都可以作伴了。
阳上父母姐姐以及两家人，都会为你们祈福。
Saturday, May 12, 2007
5/2007 You'll feel a lot better to show your emotion
From: EM Lin
Date: 26-05-2007 22:14:17
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Dear Ewe Chin,
I hope you don't cry alone. Cry it out loud if you have to. Be vulnerable if you need to. Trust me, you'll feel a lot better to show your emotion.
I'm not a religious person. However, I do believe you're not alone at this difficult time. God is always by your side.
I won't be going back to PG this year. Next year may be. Just may be.
My parents are well. My 3 kids are fine. Taking care of them really occupy my whole being, with no complains...
I wish to see you again, but what to do, we are so far apart. I think of you often and pray for your happiness.
Emily
Toronto, Canada
>From: "WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP"
>To: "EM Lin"
>Subject: Re: So sorry
>Date: Sat, 26 May 2007 11:33:09 +0800
>
>Glad to hear from you again after "quiet" for a long time.
>Thanks for your support and good advice.
>Actually I am not as strong as you think. I have already lost 2 sons in the past 2 years and almost collapse. But when think of my family, my daughter and all the friends who love me, I have to struggle to be stronger. I do not want others to worry about me although now I still cannot stop from crying during bath time or alone.
>Well, life have to move on.........
>Are you coming back to Pen recently? I have not met your parents after they moved to Rifle Range. How are they? How about your 3 lovely angels? Send my regards to your husband too.
Date: 26-05-2007 22:14:17
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Dear Ewe Chin,
I hope you don't cry alone. Cry it out loud if you have to. Be vulnerable if you need to. Trust me, you'll feel a lot better to show your emotion.
I'm not a religious person. However, I do believe you're not alone at this difficult time. God is always by your side.
I won't be going back to PG this year. Next year may be. Just may be.
My parents are well. My 3 kids are fine. Taking care of them really occupy my whole being, with no complains...
I wish to see you again, but what to do, we are so far apart. I think of you often and pray for your happiness.
Emily
Toronto, Canada
>From: "WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP"
>To: "EM Lin"
>Subject: Re: So sorry
>Date: Sat, 26 May 2007 11:33:09 +0800
>
>Glad to hear from you again after "quiet" for a long time.
>Thanks for your support and good advice.
>Actually I am not as strong as you think. I have already lost 2 sons in the past 2 years and almost collapse. But when think of my family, my daughter and all the friends who love me, I have to struggle to be stronger. I do not want others to worry about me although now I still cannot stop from crying during bath time or alone.
>Well, life have to move on.........
>Are you coming back to Pen recently? I have not met your parents after they moved to Rifle Range. How are they? How about your 3 lovely angels? Send my regards to your husband too.
5/2007 Your baby is in a better place now
From: EM Lin
Date: 26-05-2007 1:16:55
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Subject: So sorry
Dear Ewe Chin,
I was so shock to receive your last news. I'm truly sorry for what you and
your husband had gone through. No words can describe the pain of your loss,
no ways can I show you how sorry I feel for you and your family.
You're a strong woman. Stronger than I could ever imagine. Stronger than
most people I've ever known. So I believe you'll be alright and face your
bright future with your broad smiles and determination. I believe in you,
your family members believe in you, your good friends believe in you. Life
sometimes can be so hard, but because you love and you're loved so much,
you'll live your life with no regret and no fear.
Please believe that your baby is in a better place now. Please believe that
one day your are going to hold him and kiss him, tell him you have done your
best and you love him very much...
Regards,
Emily
Toronto, Canada
Date: 26-05-2007 1:16:55
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Subject: So sorry
Dear Ewe Chin,
I was so shock to receive your last news. I'm truly sorry for what you and
your husband had gone through. No words can describe the pain of your loss,
no ways can I show you how sorry I feel for you and your family.
You're a strong woman. Stronger than I could ever imagine. Stronger than
most people I've ever known. So I believe you'll be alright and face your
bright future with your broad smiles and determination. I believe in you,
your family members believe in you, your good friends believe in you. Life
sometimes can be so hard, but because you love and you're loved so much,
you'll live your life with no regret and no fear.
Please believe that your baby is in a better place now. Please believe that
one day your are going to hold him and kiss him, tell him you have done your
best and you love him very much...
Regards,
Emily
Toronto, Canada
5/2007 You are always such a strong lady who made your friends proud of.
From: Siang Ching
Date: 12-05-2007 14:57:42
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Pretty Mama,
It must been hard for you to go through this. You are always such a strong lady who made your friends proud of.
Let's pray that the new day starts with only good things happen.
Take care!
Warmest regards,
Siang Ching
Date: 12-05-2007 14:57:42
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Pretty Mama,
It must been hard for you to go through this. You are always such a strong lady who made your friends proud of.
Let's pray that the new day starts with only good things happen.
Take care!
Warmest regards,
Siang Ching
5/2007 things happen for the better
From: Ms Kok Suit Yee
Date: 11-05-2007 11:58:15
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Ms. Wong,
I am sorry because of this incident, and I am very guilty because I didn't know what you have gone through.
Thank you for sharing the info.
Always believe that things happen for the better and please take care. GOD Bless.
Regards,
Suit Yee.
Date: 11-05-2007 11:58:15
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Ms. Wong,
I am sorry because of this incident, and I am very guilty because I didn't know what you have gone through.
Thank you for sharing the info.
Always believe that things happen for the better and please take care. GOD Bless.
Regards,
Suit Yee.
5/2007 you and your family must been through a tough time
From: Maggie_Wang@dell.com
Date: 11-05-2007 11:37:07
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Subject: RE: My recent updates
Hi Ewe Chin,
I am so sorry to hear about this news. I believed you and your family must been through a tuff time about this. You must be very sad when you decided to terminate it. Please do take care yourself and get well soon, I believed little May will get a younger sis/bro.
Maggie
5/2007 hard time to go
From: SL Lee
Date: 11-05-2007 12:00:44
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'
Subject: RE: My recent updates
it must be hard time to go. glad to hear you are getting well.
take care!
Date: 11-05-2007 12:00:44
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'
Subject: RE: My recent updates
it must be hard time to go. glad to hear you are getting well.
take care!
5/2007 is a blessing that he didn't come to this world than suffer
From: min ping yeap
Date: 11-05-2007 12:07:33
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Subject: RE: My recent updates
hey! ewe chin..
ver sorry to hear that. you must be sad beyond words.. but, don't worry.. is
a blessing that he didn't come to this world than suffer.
i am sure god will grant you with another precious baby in the very near future.
love you my friend, take good care ok!
min ping, US
Date: 11-05-2007 12:07:33
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Subject: RE: My recent updates
hey! ewe chin..
ver sorry to hear that. you must be sad beyond words.. but, don't worry.. is
a blessing that he didn't come to this world than suffer.
i am sure god will grant you with another precious baby in the very near future.
love you my friend, take good care ok!
min ping, US
5/2007 May the prematured life be blessed to pureland or heaven.
From: Cheow Mooy Chew
Date: 11-05-2007 15:44:24
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Eugenice,
May you and your family be blessed with good health. May the prematured life be blessed to pureland or heaven.
Regards
Cheow
Date: 11-05-2007 15:44:24
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Eugenice,
May you and your family be blessed with good health. May the prematured life be blessed to pureland or heaven.
Regards
Cheow
5/2007 U R a real woman that we proud of
Hi Eugenice,
U R a real woman that we proud of. Pls take good care of yourself and contact me should you need any of my help.
Love,
Elsie
U R a real woman that we proud of. Pls take good care of yourself and contact me should you need any of my help.
Love,
Elsie
5/2007 your baby need not have to suffer
From: Heng Peng Song
Date: 14-05-2007 10:04:08
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear EC
Sorry to hear that, anyway this is lucky to you and your family; esp your baby, for need not have to suffer alot if it was not discover at the earlier stage of pregnancy.
You are still young to have more babies as you are healthy.
Take good care of yourself, and hope to hear good news from you very soon.
regards
Hengps
Date: 14-05-2007 10:04:08
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear EC
Sorry to hear that, anyway this is lucky to you and your family; esp your baby, for need not have to suffer alot if it was not discover at the earlier stage of pregnancy.
You are still young to have more babies as you are healthy.
Take good care of yourself, and hope to hear good news from you very soon.
regards
Hengps
5/2007 go on with your life & move ahead
From: Lim CH
Date: 15-05-2007 14:15:51
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'
Subject: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
I’m shock to receive your email & feel so sorry & sad to hear that too. How are you now?
Try not to think of the incident anymore – I understand it’s difficult to do so, but have to try to go on with your life & move ahead.
Please take good care of yourself, ok! Rest more so that you shall recover fully. Heard that in such situation, you do need to take care just like during confinement, so, please take extra care for whatever you do during your daily living life. Sorry that, I need to go now. Shall contact you other time.
Best Regards,
Chong Hui
Date: 15-05-2007 14:15:51
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'
Subject: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
I’m shock to receive your email & feel so sorry & sad to hear that too. How are you now?
Try not to think of the incident anymore – I understand it’s difficult to do so, but have to try to go on with your life & move ahead.
Please take good care of yourself, ok! Rest more so that you shall recover fully. Heard that in such situation, you do need to take care just like during confinement, so, please take extra care for whatever you do during your daily living life. Sorry that, I need to go now. Shall contact you other time.
Best Regards,
Chong Hui
5/2007 I hope you will recover stronger than before
From: Kelvin Kiew
Date: 16-05-2007 23:16:41
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'; 'Wong Eugenice'
Subject: RE: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
I am saddened to know the turns of event with your health and family.
I hope you will recover stronger than before and you are still young and there are plenty of opportunities ahead of you.
I wish you and your family best of luck.
Regards,
Kelvin
Date: 16-05-2007 23:16:41
To: 'WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP'; 'Wong Eugenice'
Subject: RE: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
I am saddened to know the turns of event with your health and family.
I hope you will recover stronger than before and you are still young and there are plenty of opportunities ahead of you.
I wish you and your family best of luck.
Regards,
Kelvin
5/2007 concentrate on what you have by your side now
I am sorry for what you are experiencing. Be strong & concentrate on what you have by your side now.
Gaik Lean
Gaik Lean
5/2007 pls take enough rest to get well
Dear Ewe Chin:
So sorry to hear about the
incident,pls take enough rest to get well.
Regards
Phaik see, Japan
So sorry to hear about the
incident,pls take enough rest to get well.
Regards
Phaik see, Japan
5/2007 I truly know how you feel.....
From: cathy
Date: 11-05-2007 15:34:58
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
So sorry to hear what had happen to you, just know it today...but nevertheless I am glad to hear you are getting well now and life should goes on to face more challenges...
I truly know how you feel...because I have been thorough those sad incident...
Well, I have another challenge now...my mom just came out from the ICU to the normal ward after the operation, and still resting in the hospital....so far so good!
cheers and take goodcare....
Cathy, KL
Date: 11-05-2007 15:34:58
To: WONG, Ewe Chin/ KWYP
Subject: Re: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin
So sorry to hear what had happen to you, just know it today...but nevertheless I am glad to hear you are getting well now and life should goes on to face more challenges...
I truly know how you feel...because I have been thorough those sad incident...
Well, I have another challenge now...my mom just came out from the ICU to the normal ward after the operation, and still resting in the hospital....so far so good!
cheers and take goodcare....
Cathy, KL
5/2007 I only got to know your incident today from Janet
From: Su Pek Fuen
Date: 11-05-2007 14:49:42
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Cc: Chu Jenn Weng \(E-mail\)
Subject: FW: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin,
I am sorry to hear your sad incident, I only got to know your incident today from Janet, may be I am not in your email list. However, wishes you are ok and healthy right now ! Take good care !
See you then...
Thanks & Best Regards,
Su Pek Fuen
Section Manager (HR/Admin)
VITROX TECHNOLOGIES SDN. BHD.
Date: 11-05-2007 14:49:42
To: ecwong@kwongwah.com.my
Cc: Chu Jenn Weng \(E-mail\)
Subject: FW: My recent updates
Dear Ewe Chin,
I am sorry to hear your sad incident, I only got to know your incident today from Janet, may be I am not in your email list. However, wishes you are ok and healthy right now ! Take good care !
See you then...
Thanks & Best Regards,
Su Pek Fuen
Section Manager (HR/Admin)
VITROX TECHNOLOGIES SDN. BHD.
Friday, May 11, 2007
11/5/2007-----My Message to everyone who loves & cares about me
This mail was sent to everyone who loves & cares about me on 11May 2007, Friday morning.
Hello everyone,
Hello everyone,
I am back after passing through the sad incident.
For those who has not been updated recently, my male fetus was diagnosed both kidneys damaged during the 17 weeks pregnancy routine checking and my pregnancy has been terminated on the following week.
It was extremely shock to us as the past routine checkings showing that he was growing well. Despite the kidneys, my baby was found normal in his growing including head, 4 limbs, length, weight and other organs.
The culprit is at his penis. His lower urinary tract was found blocked in the valve causing the urine in the bladder cannot passing out. Both kidneys was damaged and malfunction.
Within the days, my husband and I searched a lot of information from the net and consulted 3 specialists including the famous Professor Anandar (Fetal Maternal) at Singapore (Orchard) to look for any remedy. Finally we have no choice but to listen to the professional advice to terminate.
I was induced to deliver the baby then followed by D & C and warded for 4days at hospital. I am getting well after 10 days rest @ the confinement centre.
The doctors confirmed that my husband & I are both absolutely healthy and normal without any potential to have problem in pregnancy. They also denied my worries of high age.
Thank you again for everyone here who cares about me. My family & I deeply appreciate your visits, sms, e-mails and gifts during the time.
Regards,
EC
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
4/2007 this was the right decision
Dear Ewe Chin,
I am so sorry for your abortion but I think this was
the right decision. Do take care of yourself and have
proper rest.
My baby boy is down with a cold recently and he is
having cough and running nose. I am not sure if I can
bring him along to Taipei when we meet. I will contact
you while you are here.
Looking forward to seeing you.
Siew Wei 韶薇
Taiwan
儿科专科医生
I am so sorry for your abortion but I think this was
the right decision. Do take care of yourself and have
proper rest.
My baby boy is down with a cold recently and he is
having cough and running nose. I am not sure if I can
bring him along to Taipei when we meet. I will contact
you while you are here.
Looking forward to seeing you.
Siew Wei 韶薇
Taiwan
儿科专科医生
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